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Farm on the Hill

A visit to the Asheville area is not complete without a visit with Mike and Pia, our friends from the farm on the hill.

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Their farm has grown considerably since our last visit. Their chickens have grown, they have a goat, and they added two bunnies to the fold.

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For the days preceding our visit, L continually talked about going to see Mike and Pia “and the goat, and the chickens, and the dogs, and the bunny rabbits.” When she finally met the goat (whose name is Little Bit or Leadbelly, depending on whether you’re talking to Pia or Mike, respectively), L was a little apprehensive. It’s her usual modus operendi:be terrified for a few moments, then strike that and reverse it.

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The chickens, all grown, have their own house now. The Girl was not at all interested in going inside, which is to say she would have been had we given her enough time.

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The sight of all those chickens, scurrying about, clucking and flapping was too unpredictable for L to handle, so she simply waited outside.

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Once a chicken was isolated, though, the L was eager to pet and giggle, giggle and pet.

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The sun finally set, and with L in bed, we sat around the porch, then around the kitchen, talking, laughing, imbibing this and that, until after midnight.

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One of the negatives about moving out of Asheville was leaving behind friends. Yet there is a sweet note to the bitterness: the semi-yearly visits become all the more precious. We all bounce out of the house crying, “We’re going to Asheville!” It’s the classic dilemma/blessing.

Happy Anniversary

Nana and Papa celebrated their forty-fifth anniversary weekend before last. We threw a little family party for them, gave them a present or two, and ponder the implications of being married that long.

Nana can finish all of Papa’s stories for him, and she can provide commentary on how they have evolved over the years. “How long exactly was it that you were unconscious after the truck hit you?” Papa knows very well how Nana worries about him and could probably even predict what Nana will say about a given, potentially dangerous situation — not that he’s ever done that. They can both anticipate each other’s thoughts and finish sentences for each other.

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And they both love L hugely. She comes in with a stepping stone she made for them — with a little help from K — and presents it with commentary: “I made this for you!”

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In five years, half a century. “It makes me feel old,” I can hear Nana say. “You should say, ‘It makes me feel noble,'” I’ll tell her.

Backstage

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The next act — I believe the ironically named Adams Family — warms up.

Bluff Mountain Festival

Few things are a clearer herald to summer arriving in the mountains than bluegrass festivals. Sure, there’s Merlefest and other, bigger festivals, but for me, the small ones are the best.

This weekend we went to Hot Springs, North Carolina for the annual Bluff Mountain festival.

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Late afternoon

With groups playing imprompteau jam sessions behind the single stage and dancing floors made of plywood scatter around the audience area, the festival caters to those who want to listen, those who want to dance, and those who want to play. L and her friends wanted to dance.

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They were probably inspired by the Cole Mountain Cloggers, a dance group of kids fourteen and under.

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Boys and girls, some shyer than others, but they almost all have one thing in common: everyone in the audience can see from their faces that they enjoy what they’re doing, which is refreshing. To see kids that age embrace and love the “old” and the “traditional” gives everyone hope that this music and these dances will endure.

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This year, there were a couple of new additions, including a four-year-old girl who seemed dreadfully impatient to get out and do her solo dance.

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Her turn finally came, and did the audience ever love it: continual cheering and whistling.

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It’s difficult not to smile in the presence of such obvious joy.

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Dads in the Park

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Two fathers with unorthodox hairstyles in the park last weekend.

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Zoo School

I took L to zoo school — an instructional program for kids at our local zoo. It was short and sweet: just what a group of toddlers needs.

We began by exploring various animal artifacts, including a turtle shell that was almost as big as the Girl. This, it turned out, was only the keep-them-busy-while-the-others-arrive activity.

The topic was “Big and Small” and it was simply designed to get the kids thinking of the relative sizes of all animals. The highlight was when everyone got to touch a millipede.

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Though the Girl was initially nervous about being in a room with strangers, she showed no anxiety about touching the millipede. That’s both good and bad: good for the obvious reasons, bad because a dose of caution around unknown animals is always a good thing. Let’s hope she doesn’t get inspired to try to pick up any crawling beasts she might find in our yard…

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At the end of the program, L showed her leadership ability by cleaning up the pile of crayons another child had created, dumping an entire tub of them on the floor. In classic Tom Sawyer fashion, she convinced everyone it was fun and soon others joined in.

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L’s eagerness to help constantly takes me by surprise. The trick now: how to maintain it through childhood.

Meet Big Wolf

She’s been telling us the story for months now, and we’ve been pretending along with her about her imaginary friend, Big Wolf. At the zoo last weekend, we had an idea.

“Big Wolf is right over there,” K whispered when we were in the gift shop. Sure enough, a pile of stuffed wolves. “She hasn’t seen it yet,” K continued.

“You keep her distracted,” I replied, “and I’ll buy the wolf and sneak it into our bag.”

We took her outside, had her sit down, and told her there was a surprise in the bag.

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She looked in the bag and was immediately delighted. “Big Wolf!” she cried out, eager to show everyone.

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After so many months of looking for Big Wolf, we finally found him. While most say the search, the journey, is the important aspect of any adventure, the actual meeting — the goal — was a moment of pure, unsurpassed joy.

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Since then, Big Wolf has been her daily companion. He accompanies her to daycare, and even joins in the morning circle, the teachers tell us. “We’ve all gotten used to Big Wolf joining each and every activity,” Miss Brenda told me.

L constantly reminds us of the trick to life: find joy in the simplest things.

Strangers in the Classroom

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In the Hall, Final Day

They enter the classroom in August and they’re strangers. I struggle for a couple of weeks to learn everyone’s name; the energetic talkative ones I get down by the end of the first day. Slowly, I learn their personalities: their passions, their quirks, their fears. By mid-October, I know a group of 80-100 thirteen-year-olds fairly well; by mid-May, I can almost predict their every move.

This is what keeps me hooked on teaching: the relationships. A picture of a group of students is a fairly meaningless thing to anyone but the students’ teacher, but to that teacher, it’s a thousand stories about 180 days spent working, laughing, and sometimes arguing together.

And this is why I consider it a privilege to teach. Between 160 and 200 parents trust me with their children for almost an entire year. In some ways, I know their children better than they do. This can be problematic — “Oh no! My child would never do that!” — but only rarely.

Yesterday, I said goodbye to the kids I spent 180 days with. In a few, short weeks, I’ll begin again, with a new group of strangers in my room.

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At the Lockers

It is a testimony to how well the year went that I am as excited about starting next year as I’ve ever been. Last year was a tough year, with a tough group of kids. Many teachers on the eighth grade hall said it was the most challenging group they’ve ever taught. “Baptism by fire,” one laughed when I commented it had been my first year teaching there. Last year, the goodbyes were a formality, and I was relieved to have the year behind me; this year, the goodbyes were touchingly sincere, and I was a bit saddened to see the year come to a close.

One young man was terribly upset. I saw him and smiled; he thought I was mocking him. “Mr. S, don’t laugh!” he begged. I went quickly to him, trying my best to smile warmly. “I’m not laughing,” I reassured him, telling him-probably vainly-that the sadness of this ending will transform itself into joy at a new beginning. I didn’t tell him how difficult it was for me to go through endings, how it’s still difficult. Perhaps I should have, but I was afraid I would upset him more. On his own, he will learn to recognize the sweet in the seemingly bitter moments.

If I’m fortunate, he’ll come back to tell me about it.