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The changes in Warsaw between the time I first explored the city in 1996 and finally returned with my family in 2017 were enormous: it was almost an entirely new, entirely different city. I’m sure the changes in the intervening eight years have not been as drastic, but certainly it has grown: new skyscrapers, old buildings torn down or renovated, more diversity in its populations–all the changes I observed in 2017 continued to some unknown end.


Krakow, on the other hand, is a city that seems to have changed little in those years. The Old Town has a lot more variety in its culinary offerings; the prices for apartments in that part of town are likely out of reach for the vast majority of Cracovians; there’s much more diversity in the population of the city and in the tourists who visit it; some buildings have been renovated a few new structures have appeared. Still, it is by and large the same city I visited first in the summer of 1996.


The kids and I explored a bit of Krakow today since we were already so close having taken K to the airport for her return to the States. (The kids and I will be staying another two weeks.) L’s knee is still giving her problems (it all started last week in the mountains), and the forecast predicted severe thunderstorms and continuing rain starting around two, so we made a short day of it. We really only went to two major tourist attractions: the sukiennice on the main rynek for the Girl to get a few more gifts for friends, and Wawel because, well, it’s Wawel.

Along the way, we of course stopped in several shops that lured the Girl’s attention with vintage dresses or exotic plants, and we took a break in a charming little cafe just off the rynek for coffee (three lattes, please). All told, we spent there only about four hours–certainly not enough to do the city justice at all, but we’ve all been there so many times that it felt fine just reliving a few highlights. Besides, relief for an aching knee is more important than any tourist attraction.




We made it to the required attractions here in Athens; we visited an island; we drove up to Delphi and experienced the charm of Arachova. It’s been go! Go! Go! We’re tired, and today was a day to relax. Do we go to a beach? Do we head to an island for more discovery? In the end, on L’s urging (she’s picked most of our adventures, and she’s chosen excellently), we went to Lake Vouliagmeni just south of Athens. We considered renting a car, but who wants to drive in Athens again?


“It would take an hour and a half by public transport,” we told the kids, not sure whether or not it would discourage them. It did not. “That’s fine.” So our journey today was a typical city journey: we walked a few blocks to our Victoria (Βικτώρια) metro station where we took the metro a few stations to catch the 122 bus down to Vouliagmenil. We weren’t the only ones with that idea, though, and soon the bus was positively packed as we crawled through southern-Athens traffic.

“This gives you an idea of what it was like for me to be a student in Krakow,” K explained to the kids


Once at the lake, we discovered what the Garra Rufa fish do: they’re also known as doctor fish or nibble fish, and they do just that. Within moments of entering the water, I looked down to see they’d completely covered my legs. Once I eased into the water completely and relaxed, they swarmed my arms, my chest, my back. It was strangely addictive.

We ended up staying there for hours: none of us really wanted to leave.






When L began picking out places she wanted to go (this Athens portion of our trip is, after all, her graduation trip), the ruins at Delphi were very high on the list. At first, I was opposed: it’s at least two hours out of Athens, and I wasn’t fond of the idea of driving in Athens. I had no firm reason why; it just didn’t sound pleasant. It was just a feeling I had. After all, “chaos” is as Greek a word one could ever imagine. Still, she kept talking about it, and I relented. (Truthfully, it really didn’t take that much: I’m a reasonably confident driver, and while I’d never drive in many countries–India comes to mind–I knew it wouldn’t be all that bad.)
We headed out today after breakfast. While K and the kids were in a pharmacy getting something for the itchy bites plaguing L (and strangely enough, no one else), I went to the car rental place just a block away and started filling out the paperwork. As we headed out to the car, the representative asked casually, “You can drive a manual, can’t you?” Of course, I can drive a manual, and yesterday on Aegina I drove a manual. But there’s a big difference in driving a manual on a small, sleepy village where the biggest challenge was ridiculously narrow streets. Narrow streets pose no challenge for a manual transmission. Hilly terrain with lots of stop lights does indeed pose a challenge. It’s not a big deal once you’ve gotten the hang of the clutch in your car (just how loosy-goosy is it?), but to acclimate yourself to that clutch in a busy city where stop lights hide on poles on the corner of streets — that did not sound enticing.
We made it through Athens and to the quieter roads of the countryside, but it was indeed a stressful driving experience. Scooter drivers and motorcyclists split lanes constantly, which is technically illegal, I read, but one would never know it watching their behavior. There were portions of the road where there were no clear lane markings, and where I drove it appeared to be a three-lane road whereas just in front of me, it seemed like a two-lane road. Once we made it to the quieter streets, it was a bit better, but double middle lines apparently mean nothing to Greek drivers, and the people being passed casually pull onto the shoulder to get out of the way.
Though I was initially less than thrilled about driving two hours (with morning traffic, it was more like three hours) to get somewhere while on vacation, I came to appreciate the opportunity it offered: we were able to see parts of Greece that we would never have seen otherwise. We passed through small villages and quaint towns. We saw how ordinary Greeks live, even if only a glimpse. It also gave us freedom: when we found a town — Arachova — we thought charming, we were able to work that into our return plans as a dinner stop and a place to get out for a lovely walk.
Delphi itself was, as so many things here are, overwhelming. The thought of how much work it took to create something like that in a time when there were only the simplest of machines is almost overwhelming. How could they do something like that? And then the silliness of why they did it: the Delphic Oracle needed a special place to commune with Apollo and tell his priests his will using what I inferred was glossolalia. In other words, she spoke gibberish and the priests “interpreted” it. That sounds a lot like modern Evangelicalism, which is depressing: it means we as a species have outgrown this silliness in almost 2,500 years.
On the way back we stopped in Arachova for dinner. It was a stunning little town. “We should learn Greek and retire here,” K suggested.


























































We wake up exceptionally early: 11:00. PM — body-time. We’re seven hours’ difference and trying to acclimate to the new time. Yesterday’s long day gave way to an exceptionally short night (or so it felt). Hopefully after today, we’ll be fine.

When we began planning this short Athens adventure, we planned the big sightseeing day as our first full day: the Acropolis. We can see it from our apartment; we walked all around its base yesterday evening while exploring Plaka (so many maître d’s inviting us in for dining: street-side dining, rooftop dining — I felt I was continually saying, “No thank you, we already ate”). Today, though, is the day we actually visit the site.

We start with a light breakfast — pastries we purchased on the way back to the apartment last night. The best was the cheese and spinach that K and I shared, the one K mistakenly called chocolate last night to the bemused horror of the shop attendant. I’m sure it went through her head to play along and sell our son the “chocolate” pastry and then imagine the reaction. It went through my mind. We eat on our terrace, which has views to all the antennae and solar water heaters that cover all the roofs.


We’re staying in an older part of town. The taxi driver warned us that it is not the safest neighborhood, but I think she was being the overly-cautious (perhaps somewhat xenophobic — there are a lot of immigrants in this neighborhood) babcia (what’s “babcia” in Greek? Γιαγιά I learn) she was. (A γιαγιά taxi driver? First I’d seen. She took calls during the whole journey, and during each conversation, she sounded like the γιαγιά she clearly was.) When we returned yesterday evening, no worries at all; when we got up, we heard all of them heading out to work like the usually-hard-working immigrants they likely are. I think γιαγιά was exaggerating.


After breakfast we head to the Acropolis: we ordered tickets weeks ago through a third party because the package included a five day metro pass as well as admission to the Acropolis, the Acropolis museum, and a lot more. We reserved tickets for 8:00. When we arrive, the attendant tells us our tickets are for one in the afternoon.


“That’s not possible. We made reservations for 8:00;” we protest.


“But the ticket is for 1:00,” she says pointing to the spot on the ticket that indicated the time: 1:00 PM indeed. So we go from “We’re about to enter the Acropolis,” to “Jeez, what do we do for these five hours? The logical option is just to switch afternoon and morning plans, but our afternoon plans were so loose and free because we thought we’d be coming off the Acropolis, tired, sweaty, ready for something easy and pleasant in the afternoon. Still, what else could we do? So we go to the National Gardens (lovely), then head to the parliament building to watch the changing of the guard, followed by the Panathenaic stadium, the ancient Agora, and modern lunch.


The whole time I find myself thinking about how we made reservations for 8:00 but they registered as 1:00. At first I reason it had something to do with the time difference: “Stupid website somehow took into account the time difference and registered us for 8:00 our time.” But that doesn’t make sense: we’re seven hours different, not five. Where is the difference five hours? Between South Carolina and England, the country that runs the website we used. “That must be what happened,” we reason.


When it’s time to head back up to the Acropolis, we buy more water (we never seem to have enough) and decide to go back via the metro. Unlike the morning, it’s relatively empty, but with the wait times at each station (we had to make two line changes), we end up arriving fifteen minutes after one.


Already riled up, I start muttering under my breath: “If they don’t let us in…” Of course, they do, and of course, we’re amazed with what we see. The main building is of course a temple to Athena, making it sort of the Notre Dame of ancient Greek religion — or rather, the opposite: Notre Dame is the Parthenon of Christianity. Perhaps in a few more millenia, people will be visiting cathedrals like we view the Parthenon now: relics of a bygone time honoring a deity we can’t imagine worshiping. (Are there any who still worship Athena and the other gods? A quick search reveals that Hellenism or Hellenic Polytheism does still exist, but they’re a religious curiosity at this point. Perhaps Christianity and Islam will be the same?)



After our visit, we head back to the apartment to refresh and to relax for just a bit before heading out to dinner. That is, everyone but me: I start working on pictures, which will be especially challenging this trip. I thought I could do everything through L’s iPad, which I guess I could, but I ran into some initial hiccups yesterday and ended up doing all the photo editing on my phone. Long-ish story. It has its benefits: I’m not willing to spend so much time editing on my phone, so I’m more selective, and there will be a lot of unedited pictures I can play with when we get back to the States. But it adds a step to the workflow, and it’s really aggravating working on such a small screen for editing. The second challenge is the new camera, rather its batteries: they take forever to charge, and they die quickly. I’ve never had to be so conscientious of my battery life when photographing. We have two batteries, but we should have brought a third. First world problems — one must keep things in perspective.


For all intents and purposes, this has been one, long, sleepless day. We left for Atlanta around 9:30 Sunday morning and arrived in Athens around 2:00 local time.

Add to it the fact that I barely slept at all in the plane from Atlanta to Frankfurt, and took only the shortest of naps when we arrived in Athens and it’s fairly obvious why I’m about to fall asleep typing this.











We spent yesterday and today in Charleston — a favorite destination when we have a bit of time, a bit of money, and an itch to travel. Only three hours away, it’s a perfect weekend destination.

And even when it’s too cold to go into the water, we have to spend some time on the beach.

We gave the new camera a bit of a workout. It’s a steep learning curve: there are a lot more possibilities than our older cameras (focus modes, for instance), and it’s taking us a while to get used to everything.

Still, the size, the image quality — I think it was a good choice for us as are kids grow up. I won’t be needing to take any more volleyball pictures, and for soccer, I’ll still likely reach for the Nikon given the lens options we have.

Still, for our trip to Greece and Poland this summer, only one camera and one lens.

We took a couple of walks,

I took some pictures of the waves,






and then we headed downtown. The kids wanted to do a little shopping; K and I just split up with them and helped out. Afterward, there was only one place to go before heading back:



Hyman’s — probably the most famous seafood place in Charleston. I almost always order the same thing: there’s only one variant. I’ll always have mussels; I always take the deviled crab; after that, the third is the only variant. Today, I had the salmon croquette. All delicious.

K ate light — too mush sushi the night before.

The Boy, being the Boy, decided to try something new: crawfish. He wasn’t thrilled. He ate them, but decided it was too much work for too little return.









“Are you going for the bride or the groom?” I was standing at the car rental counter making small talk with the young lady completing the paperwork for us to rent our car, and I answered without giving any thought to the oddness of my response.

“Neither. I’ve never met either of them.”

She smiled. “How did you get the invite if…”

I started pointing over my shoulder. “She knows the bride,” I explained, indicting behind me with my thumb my absent wife. I turned around to discover K wasn’t standing behind me.

“Wherever she is…” I continued.

I have, in fact, only been to one other wedding where I didn’t know the bride or the groom, and it was the evening I proposed to K in 2003.

There was little difference between that evening and Saturday’s wedding. During the 2003 wedding, K and I sat with a group of her college friends (it was a college friend’s wedding), but I really knew none of them.

Saturday, we sat with a group of folks who were from the same village as K (the father of the bride was from Jablonka) but otherwise strangers to us.

No matter: we were soon talking with them as if we’d known them for ages.

That’s part of the magic of a Polish wedding: you can go knowing no one and be fairly certain you’ll still have a great time. The copious amounts of alcohol certainly helps lessens everyone’s inhabitions, but there’s something more to it than that.

A 6:30 flight that necessitates a 4:15 wake-up time might get you to Chicago with a lot of time left before the 5:00 wedding that’s the reason for the whole trip, but it also drains you just a bit before anything even starts. Still, this morning’s trip was completely painless: easy parking at our local Greenville airport, quick check-in, smooth security check, on-time boarding and takeoff started the trip off stress free if not a little tired. Things went just as smoothly in Chicago when we arrived, so that put us downtown with a lot of time, a little cafe nearby, and no real commitment other than to explore the city.


























We made it to the hotel without much problem (Chicago seems to be the city of Saturday traffic jams), took showers, and headed out for the wedding. Pictures from that coming only tomorrow…
While we were in Charleston this weekend, we saw a lot of houses that would come with seven- or eight-figure price tags were they to go on the market. It’s fairly common in the Battery area. In fact, I think you’d be hard-pressed to find something under $800,000.
And then we noticed this condemned building. Likely well over a hundred years old, it has certainly had better days.

The siding has completely deteriorated on one side of the structure.

to the point that the wall insulation and in-wall plumbing is visible.

Continuing around the back, I saw the back steps are completely wrecked,

and the entire back corner of the building is completely open to the elements, missing part of the roof and part of the wall.

Had the house been moderately maintained, it would be worth at least a six-figure sum even if it needed extensive renovation. Had it been meticulously maintained, it would likely fetch close to or even a little over a million dollars. But to do that requires resources, requires money — as the truism goes, one must have money to make money. One falls on had times but is still determined to keep a property in the family (only imagining a previous owner’s situation) until is no longer a possibility.
Whatever the story, all that’s left to do is demolish the building.













Labor Day weekend for many years meant one thing for our family: a weekend with dear friends at their lake house outside of Charlotte. This is the first time in probably six years that we haven’t gone.

Instead, we decided to spend the weekend in Charleston. It’s a favorite destination. There’s the beach at Isle of Palms.

It has lovely streets and historic buildings.


There’s Hyman’s Seafood, which has the most amazing deviled crab on the planet.
