matching tracksuits

fun in threes, sometimes fours

the girl

Return to the Tallulah Gorge

More Lost Pictures

Semi-Lost and Found

It was like finding cash in a coat pocket, but better: old pictures I'd never posted here. These are from 2014 when we spent the week at Deep Creek.

E is now twice the age L was during this vacation.

Our Children

Where did these kids go? How could the relationships between us grow so relatively complicated?

It's my common theme, though I don't always express here why I'm thinking about it...

Jacksonville Meet, Day 2

The Girl finished third, qualifying for nationals.

Talking with coach

Jacksonville Meet, Day 1

Today, we were back in Florida, less than a week after we left it last. It was a quick trip, though: the Girl and I drove down yesterday afternoon (hence the nearly-non-post of yesterday), arriving at close to ten in the evening and going to bed shortly afterward. We were up at six to make it to the meet by a touch after seven for L's first event: javelin.

Her total was simple: finish in the top eight to qualify for nationals at the beginning of next month. Sadly, she missed the mark, finishing ninth.

It was disappointing, but in some ways, not completely unexpected: she hasn't thrown in three weeks, and she used her shoulder a lot on a daily basis a couple of weeks ago at volleyball nationals, so it was a bit sensitive today. By the time she was heading up for her second throw, she was already massaging that shoulder.

We head back to Jacksonville Thursday afternoon for her second event on Friday morning, the high jump. We'll see how that goes, but she already went started preparing, heading out for jumping practice right after we got back from Jacksonville this afternoon.

St. Augustine 2024 Day 1

Morning

The shells on the beach just at the edge of the surf were visible for only a few moments before the white bubbles and turbulence hid them again.

In the brief time I could clearly see them in the shallow water, it was obvious most of the shells were only fragments, often smaller than the smallest coins, slivers well on their way to becoming grains of sand. Every now and then, a shard would catch my eye, and I would think, “I might try to grab that one” just before incoming wave hid them once again.

By then it was too late: once the water cleared up, the tide would have tkane the shard so far away from its original position that finding it was all but impossible. Another might catch my eye, but then the process would simply repeat itself.

To get a shell required calm and patience followed by a paradoxical ability to move quickly when needed. Hesitation meant the loss of the moment. In some ways, that’s a metaphor for live in general for many people. Everything is about getting the right moment, and when that fails, increased stress is the outcome.

Yet the older I get, the more I realize the error in living like that and the unnecessary stress it causes. Yes, I might not get that exact shell that I wanted, but there were plenty of other shells that were just as lovely, often more so.

Evening

In the evening, after we'd spent a few hours back at the Airbnb, after we'd spent some time downtown and had dinner, we headed back to the beach.

I took a few pictures:

and the Boy took a few pictures:

A short walk to end a lovely day.

And we got home, and I saw the fantastic news from the Tour de France: Mark Cavendish got his record-breaking 35th stage win, assuring him the historic title "The Greatest Sprinter of All Time!"

Almost as enjoyable as watching the win itself was seeing the other riders' reaction to the amazing win.

Previous First Day

Tampa to St. Augustine via Gainesville

We left our lovely hotel room with an incredible view to head to St. Augustine for the second half of our Florida vacation. It's the second time we've been to St. Augustine as a family, the third time for the kids and me. That is to say, we really like St. Augustine.

Along the way, we made perhaps the most important stop of the whole week: a few hours in Gainesville. What's so special about Gainesville? Well, it has a fantastic Korean restaurant, as we discovered for lunch. And rocker Tom Petty is a Gainesville native. But neither of those was the real reason we went to Gainesville. Our primary motivation has to do with our daughter, who is going to college in about a year. Going to college in about a year. Her number one choice of colleges: University of Florida, which is located in -- guess -- Gainesville. She wants to study bio-engineering, and Florida University has one of the best programs in the nation for that.

So we stopped by for a tour of the university. I tried not to talk too much or take too many pictures. The Girl remained relatively quiet during the tour. But we came away with a positive impression: the parents are happy with some of the safety programs the university implements; the Girl is happy with the college as a whole, especially one of the enormous chemistry labs we got to take a peek at.

Afterward, we headed to St. Augustine and our lovely Airbnb spot: a bungalow in an absolutely beautiful part of town. Walk to the end of the street, and this is the street we see:

Yes, that's a peacock taking a stroll down a Live-Oak-lined street. It's positively bajkowy.

Lovely houses as well. And the peacock? They're from Ponce de Leon's Fountain of Youth Archaeological Park, an ethnographic museum literally at the end of our street.

We weren't planning on visiting any real attractions while in St. Augustine, but since it's just down the road, we're thinking we might. We'll definitely visit the Cuban coffee cafe down the street.

A games night rounded out our evening: our Airbnb has several entertainment options, including a ping pong table. Poor K gets knocked around in board games, card games, and our front-yard badminton games, but she really knows how to play ping pong.

"Don't worry," she assured us, "I'll take it easy on you." And proceeded to trounce us all one after another, beer in hand.

St. Petersburg Day 2

Orlando 2024 Day 4

The girls won their first game but lost their second: the same story. They were up 22-19 but had several moments of trouble and ended up losing 23-25 in the first set. In the second set, they had a 12-9 lead but lost it, tying at 12, before dropping the second set 20-25.

And thus ended the third and final experience with AAU Nationals in Orlando.