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Downtown Asheville

We left the mountains of Madison County late Sunday morning and headed to Asheville, our home of two years.

Such an odd place, Asheville.

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When we decided to move to Asheville, a quirky friend of the family warned us that there is a lot of Wiccan activity going on in Asheville and that we might want to rethink our decision. I'm not sure what she was expecting: fields of Wicca-ness that float about the city, turning unsuspecting passersby into pagans, but there is a different atmosphere there. In the heart of the mountains, not more than fifty miles from the rhinestone on the buckle of the Bible belt that is Bob Jones University (here in Greenville), Asheville is a hippy-filled, laid back, liberal island.

The Girl fell asleep during the drive so we drove by the apartment complex where we lived.

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August 2005

Changes -- three new buildings, and the whole complex feels, well, cheaper. The old buildings were brick veneer and looked a little classy; new buildings show the cheap way out: one-third brick, two-thirds siding. It's so crowded and sprawling. It was not the place we moved into almost four years ago.

We headed downtown when the Girl woke up, doing a little window shopping on the way. "I want some!" L cried when we saw slab of fudge and explained to her just what it was. For a girl who didn't like sweets for a very long time, she has grown positively obsessive about them.

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Our time in Asheville was not meant to be idle sight seeing. We had a goal: buy a apartment-warming/wedding gift for dear friends of ours in Warsaw. We went to the galleries in the Grove Arcade.

The building never ceases to fascinate: built in 1924-29 by Edwin Wiley Grove, who also built the Grove Park Inn. It was a bustling little place until the Second World War, when everyone was evicted and the building converted to wartime use. In the 1970's it served as the National Climatic Data Center. When my family would visit Asheville in the late 1980's and early 1990's, the building was vacant but alluring. It reopened in 2002, filled with shops and restaurants.

Unfortunately, said shops had nothing for us, and we already had lunch plans, so the restaurants went unnoticed. (I don't think we ever ate there in our two years in Asheville, in fact.)

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We went to the Kress Emperium, where we attempted to sell our photos. We had been hoping to make enough money eventually to buy a digital SLR. Our lack of sales and the monthly rent turned opportunity into irony: we simple lost enough money to buy a digital SLR. Still, it's better to have tried and failed than never to have tried at all.

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We went to Woolworth Walk, which, as it sounds, is an old Woolworth store converted into galleries. Still, nothing. In the end, K had a brilliant idea, but it required being in Greenville.

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Yet all was not lost: we got an old fashioned milkshake at Woolworth Walk; we got our fill of lesbians (of which Asheville has an enormous population; maybe that's what the Wicca force fields do!); and the Girl got to run about a bit.

Growth

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Farm on the Hill

A visit to the Asheville area is not complete without a visit with Mike and Pia, our friends from the farm on the hill.

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Their farm has grown considerably since our last visit. Their chickens have grown, they have a goat, and they added two bunnies to the fold.

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For the days preceding our visit, L continually talked about going to see Mike and Pia "and the goat, and the chickens, and the dogs, and the bunny rabbits." When she finally met the goat (whose name is Little Bit or Leadbelly, depending on whether you're talking to Pia or Mike, respectively), L was a little apprehensive. It's her usual modus operendi:be terrified for a few moments, then strike that and reverse it.

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The chickens, all grown, have their own house now. The Girl was not at all interested in going inside, which is to say she would have been had we given her enough time.

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The sight of all those chickens, scurrying about, clucking and flapping was too unpredictable for L to handle, so she simply waited outside.

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Once a chicken was isolated, though, the L was eager to pet and giggle, giggle and pet.

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The sun finally set, and with L in bed, we sat around the porch, then around the kitchen, talking, laughing, imbibing this and that, until after midnight.

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One of the negatives about moving out of Asheville was leaving behind friends. Yet there is a sweet note to the bitterness: the semi-yearly visits become all the more precious. We all bounce out of the house crying, "We're going to Asheville!" It's the classic dilemma/blessing.

Happy Anniversary

Nana and Papa celebrated their forty-fifth anniversary weekend before last. We threw a little family party for them, gave them a present or two, and ponder the implications of being married that long.

Nana can finish all of Papa's stories for him, and she can provide commentary on how they have evolved over the years. "How long exactly was it that you were unconscious after the truck hit you?" Papa knows very well how Nana worries about him and could probably even predict what Nana will say about a given, potentially dangerous situation -- not that he's ever done that. They can both anticipate each other's thoughts and finish sentences for each other.

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And they both love L hugely. She comes in with a stepping stone she made for them -- with a little help from K -- and presents it with commentary: "I made this for you!"

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In five years, half a century. "It makes me feel old," I can hear Nana say. "You should say, 'It makes me feel noble,'" I'll tell her.

Backstage

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The next act -- I believe the ironically named Adams Family -- warms up.

Bluff Mountain Festival

Few things are a clearer herald to summer arriving in the mountains than bluegrass festivals. Sure, there's Merlefest and other, bigger festivals, but for me, the small ones are the best.

This weekend we went to Hot Springs, North Carolina for the annual Bluff Mountain festival.

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Late afternoon

With groups playing imprompteau jam sessions behind the single stage and dancing floors made of plywood scatter around the audience area, the festival caters to those who want to listen, those who want to dance, and those who want to play. L and her friends wanted to dance.

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They were probably inspired by the Cole Mountain Cloggers, a dance group of kids fourteen and under.

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Boys and girls, some shyer than others, but they almost all have one thing in common: everyone in the audience can see from their faces that they enjoy what they're doing, which is refreshing. To see kids that age embrace and love the "old" and the "traditional" gives everyone hope that this music and these dances will endure.

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This year, there were a couple of new additions, including a four-year-old girl who seemed dreadfully impatient to get out and do her solo dance.

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Her turn finally came, and did the audience ever love it: continual cheering and whistling.

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It's difficult not to smile in the presence of such obvious joy.

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Firstfruits

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Dads in the Park

Two fathers with unorthodox hairstyles in the park last weekend.

Zoo School

I took L to zoo school -- an instructional program for kids at our local zoo. It was short and sweet: just what a group of toddlers needs.

We began by exploring various animal artifacts, including a turtle shell that was almost as big as the Girl. This, it turned out, was only the keep-them-busy-while-the-others-arrive activity.

The topic was "Big and Small" and it was simply designed to get the kids thinking of the relative sizes of all animals. The highlight was when everyone got to touch a millipede.

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Though the Girl was initially nervous about being in a room with strangers, she showed no anxiety about touching the millipede. That's both good and bad: good for the obvious reasons, bad because a dose of caution around unknown animals is always a good thing. Let's hope she doesn't get inspired to try to pick up any crawling beasts she might find in our yard...

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At the end of the program, L showed her leadership ability by cleaning up the pile of crayons another child had created, dumping an entire tub of them on the floor. In classic Tom Sawyer fashion, she convinced everyone it was fun and soon others joined in.

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L's eagerness to help constantly takes me by surprise. The trick now: how to maintain it through childhood.

Meet Big Wolf

She's been telling us the story for months now, and we've been pretending along with her about her imaginary friend, Big Wolf. At the zoo last weekend, we had an idea.

"Big Wolf is right over there," K whispered when we were in the gift shop. Sure enough, a pile of stuffed wolves. "She hasn't seen it yet," K continued.

"You keep her distracted," I replied, "and I'll buy the wolf and sneak it into our bag."

We took her outside, had her sit down, and told her there was a surprise in the bag.

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She looked in the bag and was immediately delighted. "Big Wolf!" she cried out, eager to show everyone.

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After so many months of looking for Big Wolf, we finally found him. While most say the search, the journey, is the important aspect of any adventure, the actual meeting -- the goal -- was a moment of pure, unsurpassed joy.

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Since then, Big Wolf has been her daily companion. He accompanies her to daycare, and even joins in the morning circle, the teachers tell us. "We've all gotten used to Big Wolf joining each and every activity," Miss Brenda told me.

L constantly reminds us of the trick to life: find joy in the simplest things.