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First Pics from Abroad

"How will I send you pictures?" K asked before leaving with the kids to Poland. We worked out a couple of different ways, but uploading directly to MTS seems to be the best method.

And so now I begin the shift from blogger to historian, for I'm writing about pictures and events where I was absent. I can look at the pictures, make an educated guess about what was going on (informed by what K told me via Skype), but by and large, I'm still just a historian.

So I look at the pictures and think, "Hum, at the airport." And I think further: Charlotte or Munich? It doesn't look like the terminal from which we've always left from Charlotte, but it looks less like the Munich airport. Still, the carpet, the handicap sign (why are my children sitting in a seat for handicapped people?), the general surroundings, the alertness of the kids -- it must be Charlotte.

The other pictures are easy: I recognize the spot immediately, and more importantly, K told me about their shopping trip to "downtown" Jabłonka.

The clothes are another clue: Charlotte was 98° when they left; Poland was in the 50s, with the 5 AM morning temperature (Babcia is an early-riser) being a refreshing 32° F. Still, you'll notice in L's hand an ice cream cone. Apparently they're continuing the tradition we started in 2013: if you go to the village centrum, you must get an ice cream cone. Still, you'll also notice in the background that children returning from school are wearing shorts. It is, after all, June. Summer in Poland.

Here and There

Two stories, one family. Or maybe one family, one story, temporarily told in two parts. The highlight of the day came in the morning, without question. Mug of coffee in hand, I headed downstairs to chat with the better portion of our family. They’re finishing up lunch; I just had breakfast.

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The Boy began with the important information: new additions to the toy collection. With money from Babcia, he bought an entire set of air-travel-based toys: airplane, cargo lifter, the stair-mobile that we occasionally see but almost never use. Except at Krakow’s airport.

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He put a couple of toys down in front of the computer and proclaimed that I could play with those. I suggested we might have to wait until the family is reunited.

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In the meantime, the Girl has dashed up to her room (which means bolting up four sets of stairs) and back to show me what she chose with her money from Babcia: a small Nerf-launching pistol to go along with her Nerf-launching bow that’s still here, in South Carolina.

It’s likely to be a daily or near-daily occurrence. “What kind of plastic nonsense will she have next Wednesday, when you guys go to the flea market?” I ask. L just jumped in joyful anticipation.

Feed the Cats!

K and the kids are now somewhere over the Atlantic, on their way to Munich, where they’ll have ninety minutes to make a connection to Krakow, where K’s godfather will pick them up and drive them two hours south almost into Slovakia, where Babcia is waiting with chicken broth and homemade egg noodles. The ninety-minute ride to the airport went fine, the check-in process was flawless, and we even had time to sit and share an over-priced bottle of orange juice before they entered the terminal area restricted to those of us who lack a ticket. I wound through the line with them, ducking out at the last minute just before K and the kids had to take off shoes, belts, etc. The Boy came back over to the rope barrier and gave me another hug and kiss. The Girl followed, on the brink of tears, reminding me for the thousandth time to…

Final Night

It comes around generally every two years, but these last couple of times, there’s been a twist: the last night before leaving to Poland has been bittersweet because of the way we’re leaving. Last year, it was L and I who left, with the Boy staying home with K. This year, it is I who stays behind. At least temporarily. At least in theory.

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Whether or not I go, and right now the latter is more likely, depends on a number of variables, some in my control, some perhaps less so.

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So tonight might possibly be the last evening we’re together as a family for up to seven weeks. And what does a family do that last evening when they might not be together for a very long time? If they’ve just received a gifted trampoline, they jump.

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The Battle

With K's and the kids' departure to Poland nearing, we're spending as much time as possible at the pool. With L's swimming lessons -- and we were informed that it's time for her to move to the advanced group next time -- that meant that she was hitting the pool twice a day some days. And yet in spite of all this, getting out is the toughest part.

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For the Girl, it's simple: she just doesn't want to get it. It's rare that she's the one who initiates the "when are we leaving" conversation. Usually, she seems willing to stay and stay and stay. And that translates to excessive lingering in the pool.

For the Boy, it's a whole other story: the towel is the challenge.

Up and Down

Trampolines, for the briefest of moments, allow you to break an otherwise unbreakable law, unbreakable because it's a physical not prescriptive cultural law: gravity. We go higher than we otherwise would be able, we seemingly float at our apogee for a half-moment longer, and the effects on our legs of all our weight crashing down are substantially diminished. Which is a long way of trying to explain the obvious: it's simply fun.

And tempting: as the Girl hurls her feet over her head, trying, again and again, to do a full front flip and land on her feet, I think back to a time ten years ago when, visiting a friend, I bounced about on his kids' trampoline and casually landed a forward flip. Nothing to it, really. Now, I jump, jump, jump, thinking of what my body needs to do to toss my feet over my own head, and while I know all the components of the action, my body says, "Well, maybe it's not so simple..."

Trampoline

We recently acquired a trampoline: a Polish family’s sons, now in college and high school, no longer jump on it. “And we thought you might like it,” they said.

Apparently we do!

Break

K informs me that I work probably fifty to sixty hours a week during the school year. Grading, planning, grading, planning in the evenings, on the weekends, in the evenings, on the weekends. It adds up, she tells me. I never keep track, but I'll go with her assessment. That's why, when summer break comes around, it's an absolute relief, at least for the first couple of weeks.

And it allows me to do things like cleaning up a trampoline we got for free from a family whose boys have long outgrown it and doing it in the early afternoon of a Tuesday.

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Which is also good, because as L helps, she gets tired, which bodes well for a restful night's sleep.

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So we all get breaks.

First Communion Pictures

It's been a while since L's first communion, and we're just now getting around to publishing them.

A Week of Pictures

With all the work I've been doing on this site (all of which is behind the scenes: an integration of all the various sites I'm responsible for into one single WordPress installation for ease of maintenance), I haven't had time to work on the site. And I've gotten behind with pictures and stories, but especially the former.