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the girl

First Wound

Bumps, scrapes, and scratches -- part of growing up. We tell ourselves, "It's going to happen. She's going to hit her head hard and a knot will rise on the spot, or she'll slip and skin her knee," and we think we're prepared.

Yet when it actually happens, it's something entirely different. For the first second.

In the grass field where everyone parks before catching the bus up to the chimney part of Chimney Rock Park, L was walking, then running, then falling and -- it all flashed before everyone's eyes -- stumbling, falling, and planting her face squarely on a patch of dusty ground.

The results were predictable: instant hysterics, jerky motions, and panic -- and that was mom. L was in a state of screaming that we've never heard.

"Water! Water! Put some water on that rag and give it to me! Quickly!" In Polish, from a panicked mother.

The tears passed quickly enough, but the consequences will hang around for a few days:

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Once the girl stopped crying and everyone calmed down, K said, "Don't worry, L. It's just your first scraped nose." Dziadek and I added, almost simultaneously, "And it won't be your last."

Another Sunday in the Park

We went back to Cleveland Park this weekend, with the intention of going to the G’ville zoo. We arrived at 4:00 to find it closes at 4:30 — an odd time to close a zoo.

Instead, we walked through the park and made our way over to Falls Park.

On the way back, we stopped to swing and play in the sand:

More pictures you-know-where.

Faces and Acrobatics

The Girl makes some of the funniest faces sometimes. This was last week at Reedy River Park.

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Shortly after this, she took a tumble.

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The Girl, in Jeans

The Girl, In Jeans

I’m Ready For My Close-up…

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New Family Member

“We need to get a dog. L is growing fast and we should teacher her that she’s not the center of the universe,” said K. Or something like that.

“Dog equals lots of work and time training, lots of money getting some sort of barrier device installed, lots of time cleaning up accidents, lots of barking, lots of walking at inopportune times, lots of ‘lots’ we don’t have lots of,” I responded, only not nearly so cleverly.

We agreed on something of a compromise:

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Meet Yet-Unamed.

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He’s a three-year-old abandoned sweetie who’s obviously been around a lot of children: he’s as patient with L as any parent could want. Sure, he has his limits — then he just gets up and walks off…

3/4 of a Year

L turned nine months today. We spent a few moments watching videos of when she was learning to sit and learning to crawl; now, she moves rather quickly, not to mention enjoying things that were impossible a few months ago:

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We spent the afternoon wandering around Cleveland Park, and as sometimes happens, I'm in some of the pictures.

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More pictures are at our Flickr account.

The Girl

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Mowgli

The girl has been crawling for some time now, but since we've moved to our new house with hardwood floors throughout, she's adapted her crawl so it's less painful.

Nodding Off

It surely started earlier, but the first time I noticed my tendency to nod off was in high school. It was usually during first period, and that morning after friends and I had traveled to Blacksburg to see the Indigo Girls, it was almost impossible to fight. During church it was tough sometimes as well. It didn’t help that some sermons went for 90 or more minutes…

College wasn’t much better, but at least I finally began creating a nodding-off rhythm for myself. Around four every afternoon, it became unreasonable to do anything other than sleep. Nap, I called it, but it was really much deeper than that.

The triggers were more varied than the time of day, though. Reading often sent me into spasms of yawning, which is particularly problematic for an English major.

These days, it strikes in the early evening. This too can be problematic, for I have evening duty with the Girl, and it’s during that time that she’s particularly needy and wants a lap and snuggles: if we’re sitting in a chair, I’m always a little worried that she might somehow tumble out of my arms and bounce on her head a time or two.

The other evening, as I was nodding off, the Girl on my lap and snuggled into the crook of my arm, I noticed she’d suddenly become very calm as she was looking at her book. I looked over to see her eyes slowly closing, her head drifting forward until a sudden jerk brought her head back up and opened her eyes.

What a thing to inherit.