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When in southern Poland you look out and see not a single cloud in the sky, staying inside is simply a sin.

And with only a few days left of our Polish adventure, it's even more critical to make the most out of each moment, to squeeze every single opportunity out of every single moment (not to mention every single mixed metaphor). This also means beginning the lasts -- the last time seeing this or that friend, the last walk to the river, the last, the last. Always some kind of last.

Today, on the walk, I take some of the last opportunities for some shots of the two of them. For them, it was possibly a last chance to play in the water, to play with the puppy that lives along the way to the river, to play some jokes on each other.

On the way back, we find a common sight: a stork hunting in the fields.

"Quiet! Quiet!" I call to the girls behind me. "Up ahead there's a stork." We sneak up to watch the stork, but at the last minute, Kajtek, Babcia's dog, spots the stork himself and gives chase.

It thrills the girls despite the fact that there's no chance of watching the stork up close.

When we get back to the house, I jump into the car and head to a couple of locations I know to take a few landscape shots. After all, who could possibly pass up a virtually cloudless sky here? First stop -- just over the border in Slovakia. The fields are different here: instead of the patchwork of small plots all with different owners growing different crops, with each owner probably owning half a dozen plots spread about the village, the Slovaks have consolidated their fields, resulting in huge fields of corn, wheat, potatoes, and other crops.

Returning, I stop at the start of Lipnica Mała to get a few shots of Babia Góra. In the end, neither location provides clear views of either the Tatra Mountains or Babia Góra: the air is still just a bit too thick, too heavy.

I head back to take the girls and Babcia to Orawskie Lato, a local folk festival that's in its twenty-second year. We arrive just in time for the "Popisy Hajduków" contest. I doubt you can think of a dance that's harder on the knees and more exhausting on the legs and lower back.

Afterward, while out with a friend at a nearby village, the skies clear and the mountains look close enough to touch from this distance.

As we head back to Jabłonka, clouds lightly cover the Tatras.

A good days of lasts -- temporary lasts, that is.

A day in Zakopane, the reputed "Winter Capital of Poland" (or more likely, given the number of tourists all year long, the Mountain Capital), begins in Chochołów, a small village on the way. It's famous for its traditional wooden houses. Unpainted, untreated, they positively shine after their yearly spring scrubbing. And the irony: the village church is made of stone.

We make it to Zakopane and find a parking spot at the base of ulica Krupówki, the main tourist street. We head up the street and I provide simple instructions: "You can stop at two places each on the way back down. While we walk up the street, have a look around; on our way back down, you can show me where you want to go." And what drew L like a lodestone? The shops that sell the plastic nonsense anyone can buy in any corner of the so-called developed world. The plastic nonsense made in China that is taking over the world.

We cross under ul. Nowotarska/Koscieliska (the one becomes the other when they meet Krupówki) using the new passage under the busy street. In the past, with all the people passing through, it was impossible to drive through this area in less than ten minutes. But that's all that's new: the rest is just as it was when I first walked down the street. The long line of cheese mongers all selling exactly the same product has new, younger ladies behind the piles of cheese, but that's the only difference.

We take the funicular to Gubałówka Hill, perhaps the ultimate tourist trap of the whole area.

There are more attractions for two little girls -- pony rides, trampolines, giant floating, air-filled, girl-filled balls -- than one can possibly imagine, not taking into account all the plastic nonsense for sale.

We stop at Cmentarz Zasłużonych na PÄ™ksowym Brzyzku, a cemetery in Zakopane for those who have in one form or another made significant contributions to culture. Novelists, painters, composers, poets, teachers.

The girls find the grave of Kornel Makuszyłski, author of Koziołek Matołek, a series of books that were eventually turned into an animated series about a goat's search for Pacanów, where they make goat shoes. The girls stand for a while and pay their respects, then walk down the path, with S listing all the stories about Matołek she knows and L counting.

It's always a highlight of any trip to Poland. To begin with, there are the views. As it's the highest parish in Poland and situated just above Zakopane and opposite the Tatra range, they're incredible. Then there is the virtual trip back in time. With people still literally using horse power, it sometimes feels like you're trapped between two centuries. So there's all that, but most importantly, there's family.

Babcia comes from Ząb and still has family there: her mother, a brother, a sister, and countless cousins. Any visit starts there. We always begin there.

The older girls arrive and discover a board game -- immediate obsession.

The littlest, though, heads straight for great-grandmother, who has a big -- an enormous -- bag of puffed corn.

We have lunch; we chat; Babcia has some quite moments with her mother. It's as it always is, as it always should be.

After a bit of food (what Polish visit would be complete without food?), coffee, and conversation, we had to Furmanowa, a field overlooking Zakopane directly across from the whole Tatra range. A visit to Ząb would never be complete without it, for the views are absolutely incredible.

As we approach, Babcia informs us that the weather is definitely going to change: "The mountains look so close we could touch them." Indeed, there's a clarity in the air that belies the fact that the weather for the past week and a half has been absolutely miserable.

But the recent change in weather -- although Babcia assures us that it's temporary -- has brought out the excitement and silliness and everyone.

But the views. It's hard to look away.

Today, though, we make some changes.

We head up by the fairly new church looking for Babcia's grandmother's house -- the Bobak homestead. In front of the house, an unknown babcia sits knitting socks (probably for later sale in Zakopane), and she asks with a certain clairvoyance, "Are you family?" She speaks the local dialect: at the same time thicker, heavier than standard Polish and somehow lighter at the same time. I struggle to keep up with the conversation -- same story as always.

She informs Babcia that there's someone around back working, so we head around the house to find Babcia's cousin raking hay.

They engage in the small talk that makes family family, but initially, the house steals everyone's attention.

"At one time," Babcia explains, "it was widely considered one of the most beautiful houses in the region." It's easy to see why.

And of course, the views from their back yard -- such as it is -- aren't bad either.

L and S have different things on their mind, though.

"Masz kota?" asks L. Fortunately, it's family, so it's not a big deal that L, as she always does, is speaking in the familiar voice when asking if they have a cat. Properly speaking, L should be speaking to adults in the third person to show respect, but the only people she's ever spoken to in Polish are family, so in a sense, it's not a big deal this time. However, she's been talking to strangers like this.

But this time, it's family, and I don't really feel the necessity to explain and correct. And besides, the girls have run off to the barn as Cousin A suggested, and I'm enchanted myself: the views, the people -- it's all a bit overwhelming as it always is.

We return to the main road and Babcia picks up the conversation where they left off. More introductions, explanations, history: it always comes back to who you know here, looking for that common ground. In Ząb, though, there are really no strangers.

"Who was she?" I ask.

"I've no idea," Babcia admits. She hasn't lived here in decades and doesn't remember everyone. "Ask Aunt Z when we get back," she suggests. I will, and Aunt Z will immediately recognize her; Babcia will recognize the name.

But in the meantime, we're still exploring.

"Let's go to the John Paul II memorial," Babcia suggests, and we find it easily enough: we'd walked right by it searching for L's great-great-grandmother's house but somehow not even noticed it.

One thing, though doesn't escape any of the cousins' notice as we approach: the small kisok to the right that promises ice cream.

"Masz czekoladowy?" asks L. The salesman is just out of his teens, but he's an adult, and L should be talking to him in the formal third person. I whisper "Czy Pan ma..." in her ear, and she reframes the question. Still, he's now busy preparing four ice cream cones, none of them chocolate.

"Let's go a little further," Babcia suggests. "I'll show you the path we all took when we wanted to go to Zakopane. There were no buses, no taxis -- everywhere we went, we went on foot." It takes us a little while to find the path, though. "None of these houses were here," Babcia explains.

One false start leads though a mine field of dung and past a couple of sheep grazing.

"No, no, I don't think this is it," Babcia explains. We walk a little further and suddenly, "Oh! There! There it is."

"It looks just the same -- just the same -- as when we walked there. Of course, I stayed in a dorm during high school, so I only made the trip on the weekends."

"You stayed in a dorm?" asks W incredulously. "And you only came home once a week?"

"It was the best time of my life!" Babcia explains. "I had my own bed, my own closet! It was paradise."

We wander about a bit more, then finally return to Aunt Z's house. Great-grandmother is waiting. Babcia sits with her mother, listening to the radio, commenting about the recent developments in the country.

"We'll come back again soon!" Babcia promises a few minutes later as we're leaving. "Soon!" she reassures everyone.

"Why even leave?" I want to ask. But the temporary nature of such small tastes of heaven only intensifies the sweetness, and so perhaps it's best that we leave it all behind for a week or two.

Lunch with Aunties who have maintained Dziadek’s family home. Since neither had seen L in close to two years, there was a lot of doting.

“Does she understand Polish?” asked Aunt A.

“Of course!” Babcia answered. “Every word. And since she went to pre-school these last two weeks, she’s begun speaking it very well also.”

And yet the Girl buried her face in my arms for the first few minutes.

But equally as inevitable was the change that came as soon as cousin R began tickling, chasing, and generally goofing with the Girl.

“You can’t get me while I’m with ciocia!” she squealed every time R approached.

Ciocia became the great hero, always defending L with hugs and little tickles of her own. When she gave L seconds on ice cream, she certainly moved into Most Favored Auntie status.

Yet it was not all tickles and giggles: R is getting married in a week, which means L will experience her first Polish wedding party.

“Do you know how we’re going to dance and sing!” Most Favored Aunt reminded L regularly. Indeed. The wedding is one of the things I’ve been most looking forward to about this visit. There are of course the usual happiness for R that he’s getting married, but there’s more to it than that.

A Polish wedding party is so unlike its American counterpart. It’s a celebration at full power, an all-night adventure in food, love, music, laughing, dancing, libation, chatting, and everything else that makes life wonderful.

And every visit with family and friends, we get some little taste of some portion of that fast-approaching evening.