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Playoffs, Game 2: The End of the Season

Monday 23 October 2023 | 0 Comments

The Girl's volleyball team played in the second round of the division playoffs tonight, facing River Bluff just as they had last year. Last year, the girls won in straight sets, but each set was by the closest margin.

This year, River Bluff jumped out to a 1-8 lead in the first set, and I was afraid it might be one of those nights. However, they fought back and eventually tied it at 13. That means they went on a 12-5 streak. And what did they do after that? They gave up 7 consecutive points, ending up at 13-20 in a heartbeat. This has been the story of this team this year: they pull back and tie a set or they roar ahead and dominate a set, only to give the points back. So they lost the first set 19-25.

The second set they jumped into the lead and held a two-point lead for a long time before River Bluff tied it up at 18. At one point, they were down again, 22-23, but they tied it on a big hit from L. They went on to with the second set 25-23, which is the same score they won their final set against River Bluff last year.

In the third set, it happened: they fell apart and could not pull themselves back together. It was 3-3, and suddenly that transformed into 4-10. Then it was 9-17. They just never managed to keep it together and ended up getting trounced 13-25.

I don't mind so much when the Girl's team loses when they just get out-played. I don't like to see them beat themselves so badly.

Down two sets to one, the girls had to pull it out in the fourth set to send it to a final fifth set. They were doing fine, trading point for point until it was 5-5. But just as happened in the third set, they began playing uncoordinated ball and soon it was 7-13: a 2-8 run. They fought back to make it 18-19, but then they gave back three more points to make it 18-22. In the end, they lost the fourth set 20-25, thus bring their 2023 season to a close.

And in the end, tears. Tears because it was the end of the season, and seven seniors will be leaving this year. Tears because it was the end of the season after a state championship that they were all convinced they could repeat. Tears because of the stress of a whole season and the release when it all comes to an end.

There is a sliver of a silver lining in all this: the Girl desperately needs a break for her ankle to heal some. At least now she'll get some rest before club season starts. But that's little consolation when you see your daughter in tears.

But we have a 3-0 sweep and a subsequent state championship from last year to keep in the bank...

Reworking Pictures from 2013

Thursday 19 October 2023 | 0 Comments

Playoffs, Game 1

Wednesday 18 October 2023 | 0 Comments

The girls took Blythewood (I think -- I'd never heard of them) in straight sets tonight. Monday, we face River Bluff. We took them in straight sets last year, but we won each set by the barest margin, so we'll see how things go Monday.

Practice

Monday 16 October 2023 | 0 Comments

When the Girl decided she wanted to play volleyball, when she tried out for the team as a sixth grader and didn't make it, when she became really determined, she'd come ask me, "Padre" (She'd started calling me that by then) "can we go out to the front yard and practice volleyball?" I'd toss her balls, simulate spikes, help her practice running for balls -- all the basic skills someone of my eager volleyball means could help with given our lack of a net.

At some point, she asked me for the last time to go help her practice. I didn't realize it was the last time she would ask me, and to be honest, I don't know if I even agreed to it. She might have asked, and I might have made some kind of excuse. Or maybe we went and practiced one last time.

She hasn't asked me to do that in years now. She probably never will again. The last time, passed without knowing, fully past with complete knowledge.

So when the Boy asked if, instead of swimming tonight, we could practice basketball, I agreed. I didn't really want to: I wanted to get some serious exercise in the pool. But he's that age: how many more times will he ask? When will be the last time?

Volleyball

Thursday 12 October 2023 | 0 Comments

The Girl's team had their final game of the regular season this evening. They won 3 sets to 1.

Another Big Win

Thursday 05 October 2023 | 0 Comments

We were spoiled last year: with the number one hitter in the state on our team (number 11 in the nation, as memory serves) and another hitter who was a powerhouse coupled with a libero who made the kind of diving saves that make highlight reels, we went into most games expecting our girls to win. And win they did, all the way to the state finals.

This year, we thought it would be a tough year with some major losses, and we have seen our girls humbled a few times. But they've held their own, winning against teams who'd beaten them earlier in the year, winning games that began with a lost first set, and generally showing grit.

Tonight, they played JL Mann, who'd beaten them earlier this year. We beat them in straight sets both times we met last year, but as I said, that was last year, this is this year.

We lost the first set 17-25, and we were playing so clumsily that I was worried we would lose the game in straight sets. But if there's anything I've learned in watching girls' volleyball, it's this: things can turn around instantly. Our girls pulled themselves together and JL Mann partially fell apart, and we took the second set 25-13.

The third set would be decisive, I thought. I guess I'm just a pessimist: perhaps they could have lost the third set and still won the match, but I don't know. They haven't won a lot of five-set matches. As it turned out, they won the third set 25-21, which seemed about right considering they'd both pummeled the other team completely once: it suggested they were fairly evenly matched.

Then we had the fourth set, and before we knew it, our girls were up 17-11. But if I've learned anything watching girls' volleyball, it's this: things can turn around instantly. Suddenly, it was 17-15, and JL Mann looked like they had all the momentum. But if there's anything I've learned watching girls' volleyball, it's this: things can turn back around instantly, and within moments, our girls were up 20-16. They managed to maintain that lead and add one more to it, winning the decisive fourth set 25-20.

Serve

Friday 22 September 2023 | 0 Comments

Today’s Cheerleaders

Thursday 21 September 2023 | 0 Comments

The Girl's varsity team played a big rival tonight. The rumor is, one of the girls on the team is the next Journee, the powerhouse hitter we had last year who was number one in the state and number eleven in the nation. They already beat a team that beat us at a tournament this year, so it was going to be a tight match.

The first two sets, though, we won handily: 25-20 both sets. The third set we jumped out to a big lead only to lose it. The fourth set we jumped out to a big head only to lose it again, but we managed to regain it and win 25-23.

Among those cheering were the girls that came to Mauldin's summer volleyball camp. They were there to cheer on their instructors/mentors, and boy did they cheer.

Conestee Sunday

Sunday 17 September 2023 | 0 Comments

"Let's go for a walk at Conestee this afternoon," K suggested after lunch. She and the Boy had gone to church while I stayed home and did school work and the Girl headed off to work, so we hadn't spent any time together as a family. Yet as is often the case these days, "time with the family" really only means K and I with the Boy.

The Girl, almost 17 now, has her own life: she hangs out with friends, meets them at football games, goes to dances with them, drives them here and there. She has volleyball and work along with her heavy load of AP classes (all four classes she's taking this semester), which means when she's home, she's usually doing homework. Or sleeping.