
Walkathon 2025
















The Boy auditioned for (and made) a regional youth orchestra. Try-outs were in May, but his band director from school (the gentleman in the lower left corner of the below picture) is also involved in this orchestra.
“They need low brass,” he said. And pulled a few strings. And they opened a rehearsal for him last week. And they were impressed enough to re-open the audition for him.

In one week, he learned the audition pieces and got to where he could play them well. “They’re so much harder than what we play at school,” he half-complained, half-bragged.

We lose every Sunday as a result, but it’s worth it. Plus, we get to go to the Furman campus ever week now for a walk.
At the encouragement of his band director, the Boy went to sit in today with the Greenville Youth Orchestra. “They need low brass,” Mr. K. said. “And you’ve improved so much!”
So the Boy went and sat in today.

And Mr. K., when he arrived, went straight to E to talk to (and presumably encourage) him.

The Boy’s team won 6-0.



















I took only one picture yesterday. Unfortunately, I caught L mid-bite. And you cant

the Boy had won in Monopoly.














The Boy’s girlfriend informed him that her dad let her drive the car (with him in it, of course) from their neighborhood’s clubhouse to their home.
“When can I go driving?” he pestered me. “After all, I’m the one who’s obsessed with cars. R doesn’t even care about cars, and she’s already gotten to drive!”

So this evening, we went to an enormous abandoned (virtually) building’s equally enormous parking lot to give him a chance to drive. He never applied the accelerator: it was nerve wracking enough just letting the car pull us along — a surprise to the Boy.
His verdict: “This is better than any video game!”















What do you do when it’s raining, raining, raining? When we took our trip to Charleston a few months ago, we went to watch the Dylan biopic that first day because of the weather, but there’s no movie theater in Jablonka. Where could you possibly go when you’re in a small village relatively far from any town?

Well, when there’s a break in the rain, you can take the dogs out for a walk. There’s always something to look at and to talk about with the Boy. So that’s exactly what we did this morning. The little suka that Babcia adopted some years ago (a poor pup clearly abused earlier in your life–she’s terrified of me and all men in general) got out of her collar and caused the Boy no bit of initial worry.
“She’ll follow us and make it back home,” I assured him.

We cut through the jarmark, which, by that time, was closing up.
“Almost nobody is there,” the Boy informed me when I finally dragged myself out of bed at nearly nine this morning, exhausted from waking to take K to the airport and then unable to fall back asleep at 4:30 when I got back to Wujek D’s house yesterday.

(K made it home safely: the animals are thrilled to have part of the family back home, but still wondering where in the world the rest of the family is.)

Finally, after lunch, we decided the best place to go was the outdoor train museum we seem to visit every visit lately. It was a little different this time: the Boy wasn’t as fascinated with every little thing like he was during our first visit, and the cold rain was a radical difference from the unbelievable heat we endured in 2022.

We talked about the fact that all this equipment was once new, modern, and cutting-edge. We entered an empty passenger wagon that had nothing but a wooden floor and rusted ceiling:

“Just think, son–at one point, someone climbed into this carriage and thought, ‘Wow! A new, modern car!’ And now, it’s difficult for us to imagine traveling like that, difficult to imagine the carriage as anything but an exhausted antique in a museum.”


















































The Boy has gone through several hairstyles over the years. When he was little (i.e., when we made the decisions), it was quite short. Given his violent cowlicks, it seemed the safest bet.
As he grew older, his hairstyle preference grew longer. A couple of years ago, he kept his hair almost down to his chin all the way around.
Today, we went to a new barber shop for a haircut. Despite E’s protests, I showed the barber a picture of the long-hair phase: “It was Lord Farquaad style!” the barber said. E just laughed.

Today’s cut was about the best he’s ever gotten. K loved it. “Approved” was L’s verdict.