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#34 — Chance and Meeting

"We want everything that has value to be eternal."

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"Now everything that has a value is the product of a meeting, lasts throughout this meeting, and ceases when those things which  met are separated."

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"That is the central idea of Buddhism (the thought of Heraclitus). It leads straight to God."

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"Meditation on the chance which led to the meeting of my father and mother is even more salutary than meditation on death."

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"Is there a single thing in me of which the origin is not to be found in that meeting? Only God. And yet again, my thought of God had its origin in that meeting."

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And looking at our children, I have to think it was more than chance that led to my and Kinga's meeting, but doesn't every parent think that?

#29 — Divided Intents

I’m certain that somewhere, in all the notebooks she kept, Simone Weil wrote something applicable to today, something that I could pair with the pictures of the Boy and the Girl playing on the kitchen floor, the Girl pretending to teach E how to bake.

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Perhaps she wrote something about the importance of play, the relationship of siblings, or something equally profound. She does seem only to write about profundity in the journal excerpts collected in Gravity and Grace. With a title like that, though, one could hardly expect much frivolity. And considering her biography, it’s hardly surprising.

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Still, it would have been convenient to look at the topical index and find “Play” instead of just topics like “Evil” and “Illusions” and “Self-Effacement.” How can I find any suitable quote from such topics to go along with the day’s pictures?

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Perhaps if she’d had kids…

Fifth Sunday of Lent 2013

It's been some time since the whole family was together -- Nana, Papa, the Girl, the Boy, K, and I. But with a prognosis for wonderful weather and a completed recovery, there was only one thing to do: pack up the family and meet Nana at Papa's "spa" to have a mid-March picnic.

We took the kids' bikes (though E tends to use his four-wheeler more as a walker than anything), some sandwiches, a fresh Polish spring salad, some mango juice, and made an afternoon of it.

#28 — Chance and Good

Beauty is the harmony of chance and the good.

The element of chance in our lives would probably overwhelm us if we knew its extent. A decision not to go with a newly-founded school's students on a field trip to the Baltic might lead to a chance invitation to a bar where one meets a new friend. A chance meeting of one's student with the friend's neighbor might get you both invited to an eventual wedding, where one suddenly discovers that the friend is really someone more wonderful than one imagined.

And from that string of chance -- or is it more? -- comes good. And so beauty.

A chance walk on an uncommonly warm February day might lead to a meeting that leads to a dear friend.

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Spring is here?

Fourth Sunday of Lent 2013

The Girl was off for the weekend, the house was quiet, and it was tempting to be lazy.

But.

The sun was out, the day warm, and the swing beckoned.

#22 — A Break

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Third Sunday of Lent 2013

With the Boy, schedules and perspectives on them change. It was the same with with L, but you forget over time. The Boy reminded us quickly, and the reminders continue daily. Among the things that change of course is the notion of what it means to sleep in. That has changed gradually as we've left behind the carelessness of childhood and adolescence.

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These days, sleeping in until half past seven is a luxury indeed, especially for for K. Sunday mornings.

From there, the rituals, old and new, take over. Sundays are days filled with ritual, both sacred and recreational.

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Mornings lean toward the former; afternoons edge toward the latter.

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#14 — Cheerios Here, There, and Everywhere

Lent is not always about the negative, about the sacrifice of this or that. It's also taking on the positive, doing something more for someone, enriching someone's life.

Or maybe I'm just trying to justify this entry...

Second Sunday of Lent 2013

Sun. It's always there, they say. While living in Poland, I could go weeks, it seemed, without actually seeing it. Hidden behind layers upon layers of clouds, the sun's light was defused throughout the whole sky, a dully gray that made it impossible to tell the time of day. There were two modes: darkness and less darkness.

Lately, it's seemed like that around here. Gray skies. Rainy days. Cold and damp. Damp and cold.

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And then, this morning.

Cloudless. Bright sky. Rich blue. And the temperature soars into the fifties, touches the sixties.

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Everyone it seems is out. The neighbors' dog, an ever-thrilled, always-excited Spaniel, is out making its rounds. I would say "Everyone loves him," but I can speak only for my family: everyone loves him.

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Everyone is out and about, including our dear little friend from up the street. The bare Crape Myrtles in the front beckon, and soon the kids are climbing, laughing, playing.

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The promise of spring, the promise of afternoons outside, the promise of long evenings with golden skies.

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It's all coming.