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Elsa

"Mr. S, do you like cats?" students ask.

"No, not really," I reply pausing before continuing my usual silly joke whenever someone asks me about my preferred pet. "They're much to difficult to cook right, and they always end up too chewy for my preferences."

"Oh, Mr. S! That's horrible!" they respond on cue.

And I suppose it is horrible, but the truth is, I really have no preferences either way about animals, other than the fact that I'd prefer not own one at all. Still, it's good for the kids, and if push comes to shove, I prefer cats: much more independent, much lower maintenance.

Our poor cat, though, is so old that she's virtually toothless and prefers sleeping to anything else -- more so than the average cat, that is. Try as she may, L can't get our poor cat Bida (which literally means "poor little thing" in Polish -- she was a rescue cat, and that was the only thing K could say about the poor cat) to play with her, and as she ages, Bida just wants to spend all her time in her little basement lair. So L has been pestering us for the last year or so for a kitten, a cat that she can raise from playful kitten to hopefully playful adult.

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Today, she got her wish, and we welcomed Elsa (L provided the name from her current favorite film, Frozen) to our family. She mostly trembles and meows now. "Imagine that same thing happened to you," we explain to a confused little girl. "She's been taken from her mother, and she's around strangers in a strange house. She's absolutely terrified, so you just have to give her time."

Tonight, when it was bed time, we put Elsa in her little bed we've put in her temporary abode in the cleaned out floor of L's closet, and then we kissed our little girl goodnight and waited. Sure enough, in a few minutes L appeared at the top of the stairs. "I can't sleep. She just keeps crying." In the end, L made a small bed on the floor and had Elsa come over and sleep with her because she just couldn't handle Elsa's sad crying.

Instant bond, and reassurance for us: she'll be a good cat servant indeed.

 

RIP

“Tata, we’ve got to let the ants go,” L said tearfully. I’d noticed earlier that the ant farm was looking fairly harsh, with dirty sand and lethargic ants.  Who knew ants required so much care? We let them go in the backyard, but I knew that, absent a queen, theirs was a doomed future.

During evening prayers, L concluded, “I pray that the ants don’t go into a fire ant hill and kill themselves, and I pray they make their own home.”

Face Off

The Girl loves our cat, Bida. Loves. Too much. It borders on obsessive, and she traditionally has shown it in ways that are far from gentle. This probably explains why the Bida loves the basement hideaway we set up for her.

It also might explain her trepidation with our newest family member.

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Fortunately for her, there’s really only one thing he wants to do.

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Cat Toy

“I’m making a play area for the cat,” the Girl explains.

Making the Cat Toy

If only her idea of playing with the cat included gentleness: she might have more success.

A Basket of One’s Own

It’s difficult to find a place, to find your place.

Her Spot

Cats and Dogs

A few weeks ago we kept some friends’ dogs for the week. I realized anew why I prefer cats.

If pets were animals, Bogart would play cats while dogs would be played by Jim Carey.

New Family Member

“We need to get a dog. L is growing fast and we should teacher her that she’s not the center of the universe,” said K. Or something like that.

“Dog equals lots of work and time training, lots of money getting some sort of barrier device installed, lots of time cleaning up accidents, lots of barking, lots of walking at inopportune times, lots of ‘lots’ we don’t have lots of,” I responded, only not nearly so cleverly.

We agreed on something of a compromise:

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Meet Yet-Unamed.

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He’s a three-year-old abandoned sweetie who’s obviously been around a lot of children: he’s as patient with L as any parent could want. Sure, he has his limits — then he just gets up and walks off…

Exceptions

Except birds

At the River

Cat’s Coming Death