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Backyard

The leaves are all out in the small forest we are lucky enough to call our backyard. They're still curled and small, but it's a sign that spring is finally here to stay. In theory. "We could still get some really cold weather, maybe even a freeze," says our neighbor. "It's happened." It might have happened, but it can't happen this year -- not this year. We're all too sick of the cold, the gray, the blah of winter in South Carolina, where it's never cold enough to make a real winter but just cold enough for a while to make it miserable.

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But spring comes, and the leaves of the trees return our virtually complete privacy, and we spend all our time outside. Or as much as possible.

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E, as we're rounding up watering pails for Mama, looks at me and says in all earnestness, "Daddy, I love being outside."

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With our backyard, which includes a stream at the bottom of the property, and the fact that our neighbors don't mind if we use their backyard as well, it's no wonder:

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we go exploring, throw rocks, sticks, and seed pods into the water, and hide in forts -- it's a true blessing that we have such a place for our children to play.

First, of course, there's always swinging. It's virtually non-negotiable.

E takes a few cars with him down to the swing -- everywhere, actually -- and he's able to entertain himself as L takes her turn in the too-small-swing.

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We stay out until bath time, which is also when the sun now sets. As the days grow still longer, it will be more and more challenging to get the Boy into the house.

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"But I want to play!" Now, at least, nature helps.

Just Before Bedtime

With the days growing longer, we tend to stay out until the last minute, until it's absolutely bath time. The kids stay out, that is -- the adults take turns. Some days we play; today we work, which means E plays, which means he works. Which means, potentially, he makes an enormous mess for me. Which is why I watch him, guide him, and probably say "No" more times than I should. We get ready a small bonfire for when our guests arrive. We're planning an ognisko as part of our Easter celebrations -- with Polish Mass at 3:00, things tend to stretch into the evening -- but we might light it up a day or two earlier. No matter: E will gladly rebuild it.

Tulip

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Measure Twice…

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Elsa and a Guest

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Nomad

Our cat, the youngest, likes to drag her bed here and there.

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Cleaning

It's been entirely too long. Our kitchen floor is a complete mess, and I'm itching to rip it out and replace it with anything at all. But I'm also itching to rip out the cabinets and basically everything else in the whole room and redo it all, so for now, I wait.

And we scrub it in a serious way every now and then.

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Work and Play

No Power

No power yesterday just as we were getting ready to head out...

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Guest

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He was hanging in a web spun between the handrails on our deck, an enormous guest whose body was probably two inches long, the span of his legs much longer still. He was impressive size, impressive color — and probably impressive eater as well. I didn’t know what kind of spider it was; I doubted it was dangerous, for only black widows and brown recluses are spiders of venomous note around here, and this fellow clearly wasn’t either. Still, a bite would probably be painful, especially for a child. So I did the logical: I gently knocked the web down, then pushed it off the deck.

Will he return tomorrow?