Day: August 8, 2018

The Room Grows Up

The final project for this summer is the Boy’s room: it’s time we make it his own instead of just a hand-me-down room from big sister. Truth be told, it’s been that way for entirely too long, but we just keep bumping it down the priority list. But he’s not a toddler anymore, and the room just had too much toddler in it, among other things.

Today was the prep day: we got everything into the center of the room with the exception of the bookshelf as K would have to go through the Polish books herself to determine what to keep and what to pass on.

Today’s theme, then, was letting go.

We cut the stuffed animal count to seven or eight. We took three bags of toys to Goodwill and prepared a bag of books to take tomorrow. It was a time of sentimentality fighting practicality.

“But Daddy, I love that!” was a common refrain.

“But you never play with it,” was the common answer.

“That’s true.”

He and the room grew up a bit today.

Lake Jocassee, Day 2

The Boy and I began the second day with a walk while the girls took the kayak out for a spin. We followed various paths and made a couple of discoveries. First, there was a playground nearby. We never used it again. Second, there was an amazingly small beach just down the shore from the tent camping sites that promised a much lovelier swimming experience than the large public beach.

After lunch, we all headed to the beach, hoping to get the dog further into the water. K had the brilliant idea of simply holding Clover and walking her out to a deeper part of the lake. She stood there with the dog, constantly reassuring her that everything was okay, and then let her swim back to the shore. That seemed to be all it took because she was generally fine with the water after that. Generally.

In the afternoon, the Boy and I headed out in the canoe, where we made a second discovery: a large rock protruding from the shore was just on the other side of the campground.

In the evening we checked out the two discoveries with the girls. Everyone declared that we must never go back to the public beach again, and the Boy declared that the large rock would be a perfect spot for fishing. The large crowd of teenagers determined it was the perfect spot for tomfoolery, but that’s what teens do.