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Month: June 2013

Family and Family

Morning: Uncle B and Aunt K drop in on their way up north. B’s and K’s son is the current national ski jumping champion, but for everyone in the family, of course, they’re just B and K, with their son K.

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We drink coffee, eat cookies, chat about a little of everything.

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Babcia decides she needs to take a picture of us. It takes a little while.

“What do I press?” It’s a fair enough question: our camera has buttons everywhere, probably too many for the job most of the time.

“Where do I look?” More time. Sweet Babcia — technology is just not her thing. She’d live in the nineteenth century if she could.

We’re all set: Babcia presses the shutter release . . . and holds it down. Flash! Flash! Flash! Flash! Flash! Five quick pictures, and by the last one, we’re all laughing, even Babcia.

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Afternoon, D and A bring the three cousins. L, S, and D are soon holed up together watching cartoons. What else is there to do when it’s eleven degrees Celsius (51.8 Fahrenheit) outside?

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After lunch, we all take turns talking to K and E via Skype. It’s a bitter-sweet moment: K and E should certainly be here with us, but vacation and such being what it is, it’s just not possible this time.

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Evening: the three girls put on a show for Babcia. There’s acting.

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There’s singing and smiling.

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And of course with L there, dancing.

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And thus begin three weeks together with the cousins.

Back Home

The Boy on his four-wheeler at Sunset Park.

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Full speed at all times.

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Looking at his clothes, though, I find myself thinking, “K, shouldn’t you be dressing our son a little more warmly?”

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Of course it’s only here we’re wearing sweaters in June.

Lunch with Aunties

Lunch with Aunties who have maintained Dziadek’s family home. Since neither had seen L in close to two years, there was a lot of doting.

“Does she understand Polish?” asked Aunt A.

“Of course!” Babcia answered. “Every word. And since she went to pre-school these last two weeks, she’s begun speaking it very well also.”

And yet the Girl buried her face in my arms for the first few minutes.

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But equally as inevitable was the change that came as soon as cousin R began tickling, chasing, and generally goofing with the Girl.

“You can’t get me while I’m with ciocia!” she squealed every time R approached.

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Ciocia became the great hero, always defending L with hugs and little tickles of her own. When she gave L seconds on ice cream, she certainly moved into Most Favored Auntie status.

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Yet it was not all tickles and giggles: R is getting married in a week, which means L will experience her first Polish wedding party.

“Do you know how we’re going to dance and sing!” Most Favored Aunt reminded L regularly. Indeed. The wedding is one of the things I’ve been most looking forward to about this visit. There are of course the usual happiness for R that he’s getting married, but there’s more to it than that.

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A Polish wedding party is so unlike its American counterpart. It’s a celebration at full power, an all-night adventure in food, love, music, laughing, dancing, libation, chatting, and everything else that makes life wonderful.

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And every visit with family and friends, we get some little taste of some portion of that fast-approaching evening.

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Bell Tower

Puddles

Take a six-year-old, some puddles, and a pair of gum boots and what do you have? An obsession with every (and I mean every) mud puddle.

Damp Krakow

The Girl and I headed to Krakow today. I was hesitant to take her: she can get fussy with too much walking, and I was intent on visiting some new ground.

"Are you sure you want to go? It will be a lot of walking, and we'll be doing things you might not find so interesting," I explained.

"Like what?"

"Like visiting old churches."

"Sounds okay," she insisted.

And so we went. After all, what else were we to do? Now power at the house due to repair work; no option that involved excessive outside time (for in Krakow, one can always take cover almost immediately).

And so we went.

Florianska Approach

The first time one walks from the general transportation area )the bus station and train station, as well as the muddy lot that serves as the "station" for all private lines) to the main city square is probably etched in most people's memory. Turn at the Florian Gate, head down Florianska Street, and the spire are the end only hints at the grandour of the city square. As L and I headed down the street, I somehow doubted she would be as impressed. The Romanian brass band did, though.

Plastic Nonsense

Some things were predictable: every single kisok with plastic nonsense -- every single one -- acted as a magnet for the Girl. "Can I look at this around at this one?" "Can I take a look at this one?" So of course when we went to the Sukiennice, she was in complete heaven.

To her credit, many of the trinkets and nonsense were for friends. And a very fun little toy for Little Brother.

Churches

Going to Krakow means unquestionably going to church. Going to churches. They're everywhere, and almost all of them are incredible. There are of course a couple of churches one must visit: Wawel's cathedral and the Basilica of St. Mary.

Wawel Hill

A visit to Krakow is incomplete without visiting the royal palace on Wawel Hill. Like many other potential attractions in Krakow, this one was likely not to rank too high on the Girl's list of favorite/impressive sites. The plastic-nonsense-kiosks reign supreme. Still, some things grabbed her attention: the idea of a courtyard, which I explained as a yard surrounded by a giant house as opposed our house surrounded by a yard, fascinated her; the idea of visiting the cave of the Wawel Dragon both fascinated and frightened her.

Cold, Rainy Day

Who would ever have guessed that in southern Poland, a day in late June could pass without the temperature ever rising above the low fifties? Such a thing has never happened before today, certainly. Who would have thought L would have spent her first day in kindergarten here inside because the teacher judged it was too hot to go outside and she would have spent her last day in kindergarten here inside because the teacher judged it was too cold to go outside?

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I’ve experienced it more times than I care to mention, but every single time I’m here during the summer, the cold catches me off guard. Last visit, K and I really simply forgot about how cold it could get. Perhaps “misjudge” is a better term. We came completely unprepared and had to buy clothes, just as my folks did when they came in 2004 for our wedding. This time, we came during a real Polish heat wave, and I thought, “Well, it looks like we might get through this visit without freezing weather.” Now naive. How silly.

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We came prepared for the cold, but not this cold. So we hunted for something warmer for L (she has a sweater on underneath that sweatshirt) and me.

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Yet a six-year-old cannot stay inside all day. She has to get some of that accumulated energy out. A bike helps; a scooter is in some ways a bit better; a dog that loves to play fetch and then be chased adds more motivation. All three mean a tired girl come bedtime.

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Of course, Babcia was neither surprised nor unprepared. Nor unknowledgable, for that matter: she predicted correctly that, despite the forecast, the morning rain would stop by afternoon.

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Since L and I are planning a trip to Krakow tomorrow, we’re both hopeful that her weather forecast is more accurate than the ever-changing “professional” forecast.

Warnings

Every tobacco product in Poland has a warning, much like in the States. Polish warnings tend to be more targeted than those in the US.

Mothers

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“Smoking seriously hurts you and those in your presence.”

Individuals Who Place Great Value on Their Physical Appearance

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“Smoking tobacco accelerates the aging of your skin.”

People Who Are Terrified of Pain

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“Smoking tobacco can cause a slow and painful death.”

People Who Need It Straight

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“Smoking kills.”

Do Kota

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L has a great new friend at a neighbor’s house. Occasionally, she brings the little fellow over for a visit.

Rainy Afternoon

Between the recurring rain — eternal, daily, multiple-times-during-some-days-all-day-other-days rain — we tried to make the most of those periods without rain. Three mini-adventures:

1) The dog needs a walk, so I took him for a walk in the fields, and discovered once again why the fields sometimes emit such a strong odor of manure despite the relatively few cows grazing there.

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2) Days like this in Polish are called “bar days.” Hardly an appropriate option for a six-year-old; hardly desirable when alone. So we found the obvious compromise: a “restaurant day.”

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3) One former teacher/colleague is now the mayor of Lipnica; another is the director of the new Orawian cultural center in Jablonka. I set out to chat with him a few minutes and get a look at the center itself.

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Not an ideal day, but what can one do on the sixth consecutive day of rain…