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Dress

Sunday morning, before church, there was some twirling and dancing in the backyard. I was there with a camera, of course.

For a brief moment, I look at this photo and think I can imagine what she'll look like ten years from now. Every few months, I catch a moment that seems to be speaking from the future. "Prepare yourself, Tata," she says in those moments. "I'm not going to be a toddler for long."

Definitely not, but she'll certainly be a dancer. She dances endlessly, tirelessly.

"All kids at this age like dancing and music," says the lady at daycare.

"Yes, but you don't understand," I want to say. "She dances more than any other person I've ever encountered."

But I don't say it. She's probably already heard it a million times.

Digging and Playing

A busy weekend. L's confirmed cat allergy necessitated the re-thinking of our cat situation. She how sleeps in the basement. (The cat does, not L.) Part of the solution involved a cat door, but where to put it? Simple: in the basement window. That involved creating a framed enclosure for the door -- yesterday's project. There's still a shelf to be built on the outside portion as it's too high for convenient entry.

Sunday was planting day. Squash and melons. The squash looks heartier than the melons. In fact, the melons, while healthy, look almost miniature compared the the hefty squash plants. Don't worry, melon -- you'll catch up and surpass your neighbor in our improvised front garden.

The day ended with another first for L -- her first train ride. With beautiful weather and a jolly conductor, we were certain it was going to be a big hit.

L sat waiting, watching the train make a circuit and excitedly talking about getting on the train.

Once she boarded with K, though, it was a different story

It's something we should have expected, for it happens often enough. We could have prepared her: it usually helps if she knows what she's expecting.

Still, the swinging, running, sliding, jumping, and general frolicking undid the anxiety.

Happy Birthday, Papa

Friday was Papa's birthday: he's doing 50 again. He thought about going up to 51, but I talked him out of it. "Fifty is such a nice, round number," I argued. "Fifty-one has very little going for it. It's not even a prime number."

When Papa has a birthday, there's only one kind of cake we can buy with a clear conscience: cheese cake. The Girl liked it too, but seemed to enjoy the act of shoving it into her mouth more than actually eating it.

Papa didn't want to laugh -- thought it might encourage her to continue -- but he couldn't keep the laughter in forever. In the meantime, he looked a little goofy.

Afterward, it was time to play. Papa had some trouble throwing the exercise ball up the stairs, much to the Girl's delight. It's always fascinating to me how something so insignificant, repeated ad nauseum, can give her so much joy.

Bubbles followed, and L followed the bubbles.

Inside, L showed her acrobatic nature while Papa showed his, well, Papa nature.

Catch!

Catching

Coordination is developing.

Throwing

Strength is improving.

Spring Evening

The trees in the backyard are slowly filling out; the sun came out today after two days' rain. The only option was to get out in the warmth.

Swinging is always the start. Swinging sets the stage for everything else. It often bookends activities in the summer: it's that popular with the Girl.

Afterward a walk -- such a change from last spring's walks.

Baby came with us; turtle had to stay in the mailbox.

Lonely, I'm sure.

Sto Lat

The Girl was unconsciously showing off her growing linguistic fluency the other day. Singing "Sto Lat," she pranced around the kitchen, giving us quite a performance.

Sto lat, sto lat, niech zyje zyje nam.
Sto lat, sto lat, niech zyje zyje nam.
Jeszcze raz, jeszcze raz, niech zyje, zyje nam.
Niech zyje nam!

One site gives the following translation:

Good luck, good cheer, may you live a hundred years.
Good luck, good cheer, may you live a hundred years.
Good luck, good cheer, may you live a hundred years.
One hundred years!

Even someone unfamiliar with the language realizes that there is only a repetition of two lines, not three. A more literal translation (i.e., word-for-word equivalent) would be:

One hundred years, one hundred years, may you live, live with us.
One hundred years, one hundred years, may you live, live with us.
Once again, once again, may you live, live with us.
May you live with us.

That "jeszcze raz" is the key. "Once again," or as L might say, "Try again."

And so the second time through the song, L mixed things up for us a bit and sang,

Sto lat, sto lat, niech zyje zyje nam.
Try again, try again, niech zyje, zyje nam.

Egg Party

For a few years now, we've been having people over one evening as Easter appears to have an Easter egg painting party. We were squeezed for time this year; we weren't sure whether or not we'd get everything together.

Then friends saved the day by beating us to the punch. The only thing we had to do: bring eggs.

As might be expected, L greatly enjoyed preparing the egg dye. It was, in fact, the first time we used store-bought dye. K usually boils the eggs with onions skins, turning the eggs a rich reddish-brown.

This was the first year L was old enough to paint, and she took to it like a natural. She was unfazed when her egg tumbled from the high kitchen counter where everyone was working. Once she had it back in her hands, she continued as if nothing happened.

It was the first year I didn't paint an egg, though. Not the first time in my life, for I grew up not celebrating Easter.

When I got back home, I saw a message on a social networking site from a friend who was "spring cleaning/deleavening today!" Someone else who doesn't celebrate Easter but instead, the Jewish Old Testament festivals.

Deleavening -- cleaning the house to get literally every single crumb from the house, for leaven is a symbol of sin -- seems much less enjoyable than what we were doing. I haven't been involved in deleavening in many, many years now, and I must say: Easter egg painting is a much more rewarding spring tradition.

And you can't exactly invite your friends over for an afternoon of deleavening.

Well, you could, but first you'd have to explain what it is. It can be, in its own way, a very spiritual activity:

I always pray for deleavening/unleavening because there are no voids in the universe. There is no "empty." If something is taken away, it is replaced with something else (e.g., when water is removed from a glass, it is replaced with air).

Deleavening requires God's help. Just as my house can't deleaven itself (I have to do it), I can't deleaven myself (God has to do it). I, though, choose to cooperate or resist and I am responsible for the choices I make. As I'm deleavened, those empty places need to be filled with unleavenedness, and God also has to do to do that (just as I make or buy unleavened bread and bring it into my house each year - I do wish sometimes it would materialize all by itself since my personality doesn't lend itself to enjoying the precise formulation of baking). Again, I choose to cooperate or resist the unleavening part of the process. (All the Strange Hours)

One cannot wax theological about Easter egg painting.

Well, an egg is a symbol of life, but beyond that?

Really, it's not important. There doesn't have to be theological meaning behind everything in life. Sometimes, it's just about the painting.

The Concert

We've been wanting to get the Girl singing captured on video. We managed to do that last night, but we weren't expecting this kind of concert:

Zupa

You’ve Got Kissibility

"You can be a star -- it ain't hard."

All you've got to do is have the right shades.

And have an eye-catching pose or two.

And know how to put your sunglasses on right side up -- something that's initially challening for a two-year-old.