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Saturday at the Pool

Our first day at the pool this year as a family, but alas, the Boy, still recovering from some upper respitory infection, cannot get into the water.

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Instead, he stays with Nana and Papa, forever pointing to the pool, forever needing distracting. It's so unfair, so inexplicable: everyone else takes turns in the water, and the poor Boy is stuck.

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For the Girl, it's a continuation from last year: more development, more courage -- diving, diving, forever diving. With a new set of flippers, she's able to get deeper faster.

"But Tata, it hurts my ears to go that deep."

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She also adds a new trick or two, like diving into the water through the ring.

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"Perhaps I could try that," I suggest.

"I've got to get the camera for that," K replies.

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"I didn't think you'd make it," she replies with a smile.

Watching Cartoons Together

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Sorting

There are a ton of pictures to go through -- close to 500. How? K and I both get carried away sometimes.

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And so after the kids are in bed, the first load of laundry done, and a bit of cleaning and sorting completed, K goes to bed and I start going through the weekend's pictures, many of which I should have posted Friday evening.

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Dozens upon dozens of pictures from the beach. The Boy walking toward the water; the Boy walking away.

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The Girl playing in the sand; the Girl playing in the water.

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But once again, it's late, and my cognitive abilities/willingness are setting like Friday's sun, though not as gloriously.

The upshot -- plenty of material for the next few days.

Two Days in Charleston

Two days to cover due to various issues yesterday -- how can I do it? Over 300 pictures in those two days. Most should be deleted, but there's not even an once of willingness to go through them all on the netbook computer I've brought with me. So I pick a few representative ones and save the others for later -- and the same goes for the stories behind them.

But how could I fail to mention the walk along the Battery, with multi-million dollar homes on one side and a beautiful bay that completely fascinated the Boy on the other?

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And how could I leave out the excitement of the Boy when he first saw the ocean? L's first reaction was panic and fear; the Boy's first reaction was squealing excitement

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And the archeture of the Charleston area, from the classic Charleston look (neither colonial nor European but a strange mix of the two with hundreds of other influences) to the modern engineering wonders.

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How could I leave out the story of a biologist's visit to Angel Oak, our walk on the Folley Beach pier, the visit to Middleton Place? I shouldn't, but I shall. A cramped keyboard, sleeping children, and a tired soul tell me that it's okay to tell only a portion of a story. If it's a good story, the rest will wait.

Back Home

The Boy on his four-wheeler at Sunset Park.

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Full speed at all times.

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Looking at his clothes, though, I find myself thinking, “K, shouldn’t you be dressing our son a little more warmly?”

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Of course it’s only here we’re wearing sweaters in June.

The Other Half

"Half in Poland Edition" means that each half only appears to the other in the form of Skype chats and pictures. On a computer screen, in other words. Yet since I can't get K to write for MTS, I'm left filling in the blanks for the pictures.

The swimming pool at Nana's and Papa's is providing smiles and continual adventures.

The zoo is providing stimulation.

The small inflatable pool in the backyard is providing entertainment.

And though we're having a fine time on this side of the ocean, it would be better in some ways to be together on either side.

First Day at (Polish) School

It's L's first day at a Polish school, picking up with the kindergarten kids for their final two weeks of school. She was upset the night before: "I don't want to go!" was a common tearful refrain. "I don't want to go" are the first words out of her mouth this morning. But a little bribery works wonders: "After school, we'll stop in at Steskal's for an ice cream cone, and later today, we'll go visit a toy store."

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And so off we go, heading through the fields to school -- another "only in rural Poland" moment.

We meet with the director (not, it turns out, my former student, which is odd: I had two students with the exact same name, and now this makes the third female in this small area with the same first and last name), and she leads us to L's teacher. Each class is given a name like "Bumble Bees" and "Dragons" and this and that: a real mix of names. L has joined the "Forget-Me-Nots".

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It's a colorful room with an original bit of decoration in the middle.

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The first few minutes she's very clingy. She doesn't want to participate; she doesn't want to speak; she doesn't even want to show her face, literally. I coax her to a table of girls, and I begin chatting with them, hoping L will join in. They all introduce themselves, we talk a bit, and slowly L begins to come out of her shell. She eventually asks for a copy of the work the children are completing.

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Before long, the kids circle up, sitting "Turkish style" (a direct translation of the Polish equivalent of criss-cross-applesauce). Then there are games, marching, chanting, singing, generally silliness. L takes part, somewhat reluctantly.

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Soon it's time for the "second breakfast" (i.e., snack), and as the children are washing up, the teacher tells me that after snack, they're going to be the next in line to go out and look at the firetruck that has been sitting in front of the school most of the morning -- sort of a guided tour of a firefighter's world.

As we head out, another "rural Polska" moment, for we have to wait as an elderly dziadek drives his equally old tractor down the street, a tractor so old with such a weak engine that it has difficulty going over the speed bump. The driver has to throw it in reverse, getting up a little more momentum the second time, to roll over the bump.

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We cross the street and the presentation begins. The firefighters show the kids their oxygen masks, their aspirators, their hoses, their helmets -- in a word, everything.

Afterward, we all head back inside for the latest installment of Cała Polska Czyta Dzieciom -- All of Poland Reads to Its Children, roughly translated. Representatives of various professions have been coming to the school to read to the children, and today, it was a police officer's turn.

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Of course all the children are interested in one thing, and one thing only: the officer's pistol. The officer take the clip from the gun, gives it a tug to release any shell that might already be chambered, then holds it up for everyone to see. Since Poland, like most of Europe, has very strict limits on citizens' gun ownership rights (in short, there are none), most of these children have never seen a pistol in person (except on the belt of a police officer). It's a nine millimeter with a six-bullet magazine, the officer explains, and there's significant "Ooo'ing" and "Ahh'ing." I find myself thinking that had this happened in the States, some kid in the group would have raised his hand to explain that someone in his family has a nine millimeter with a seventeen-bullet magazine.

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But we're not in the States, and the gun produces the intended reaction, and as the children exit the room, the story has disappeared into a fog of chatting about the pistol, especially among the boys.

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But L has other things on her mind: there's a picture that's still only partially colored.

After school, as we walk with ice cream cones to the roar of tractor trailer trucks heading to Slovakia ("This is an international throughway now," Babcia has explained more than once), we talk about the day. L decides tomorrow she can stay a little longer, then Wednesday, the whole day. Provided we go to the flea market first.

She's turning Polish faster than I thought possible.

-ing in the Rain

Lately, Sundays and rain go together with us like any cliche classic pairing. A few weeks ago, during a friend's first communion, rain all day. Last week, when we were planning on having E's birthday party, rain through most of the day. Today, when we planned to go to the pool -- to squeeze in a visit before L and I head off to Polska -- rain through most of the day.

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The forecast: scattered showers.

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The reality: endless rain. But the Boy had fun running in the rain (the little bit we let him); the girls had fun chanting "Sun! Sun! Sun! Sun!" in an endless attempt to stop the rain; and we got some more rain.

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Heaven knows we need it.

Late Spring Growth

The garden is growing: snap peas are taking off and the tomatoes are fruiting abundantly thanks, I think, to a new pruning method recommended to me by the manager of a local university's organic garden. The grass seed I sprinkled almost haphazardly in the flat space among the trees at the base of our lot have sprouted finally. (The delay was due, in large measure, to simple neglect: it was an experiment. What happens if you just spread the seed and leave it alone? I guess we have our answer now.)

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But that growth outside the house seems insignificant compared to what's developing inside: the Boy is a walker now, able to walk twenty or more steps before collapsing to his hands and knees for something more sure and more familiar.

Today a walker; tomorrow, a runner.

It all happens too quickly.

E’s First Birthday Party

Almost three weeks have passed since the Boy turned one. Three weeks of postponing a party because of illness, because of Memorial Day, because of whatever. So the party is not just a year in the making; it’s a year and three crucial weeks in the making.

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We’d planned an outdoor party with games for the kids to correspond with Dzien Dziecka in Poland. A simple plan: potato sack race, water balloon toss, foot race, egg race, and other outdoor favorites starting around three in the afternoon. Afterward, an early dinner and cake.

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All outside. I mean, we have a dual-level deck, a carport (that actually used to be a screened patio), and a fairly abundant yard.

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It was a week of beautiful weather that we spent in school and at work. But this party shone in the near-future as a reward for all our time inside that we really wanted to be out. And then the updated forecast yesterday: good chance of scattered showers.

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By one this afternoon, the chance of showers turned into a certainty of a seemingly-extended downpour. It rained, and rained, and grew drearier and grayer.

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“This is just like our wedding,” I grumbled to K. We’d had a week of glorious weather until the morning of our August wedding, when it began drizzling, then raining, then drizzling, then spitting.

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“It’ll stop,” K reassured.

“No, it won’t. It will be like this all day,” I replied.

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I tend to be a pessimist in such situations. It’s not that I hope to be right; it’s simply that I try to expect the worst so I can be pleasantly surprised if anything brighter emerges.

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As it turned out, we were both right, both wrong.

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It stopped shortly after all the guests arrived.

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We made a quick plan: cake first, then outdoor games if the rain continues to slack.

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After cake, we rushed out, finished the games, and as the last shot flew toward the goal,

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as the last velcro-covered ball floated to the target, the drizzle returned and wen headed back inside.

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Lunch/dinner was a mix of smoked meats, salads, bread — fairly typical Polish fare. The kids picked, the adults ate.

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Meal completed and ice cream served, we moved to the living room for presents.

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It’s an ironic process for a one-year-old. There’s not much unwrapping he can do. And often the packaging is as entertaining as the toy itself. Yet it’s a birthday: part of the highlight is the unwrapping.

Such was the case today.

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The most thoughtful gift: a broom. J, who keeps E during the week, lives just up the street, and she came with her daughter, mother-and-law, and a broom.

“He just loves our broom, and I thought he’d like to have one his own size.”

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But there was no time to play with the broom — and no room, for he likes to swing and sway with it in a most dangerous way when the room is so crowded. Never mind — there was plenty to distract him.

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New toys. semi-new friends. (How much can a one-year-old remember of another toddler he hasn’t seen in ages?)

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The mess afterward was truly enormous. But that’s the sign of a good party, a good mess.

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The rain, though? It returned in full force shortly after we went inside and continued into the evening. The older children resorted to that old-fashioned play technique: creativity and imagination.

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The rain continued, the children cleaned up the mess, the guests returned home (with Nana and Papa staying longer to help with the clean-up), and K and I set about getting the kids in bed.

Not a bad first birthday party. Perhaps when he looks at these pictures, the Boy will remember something, if only the feeling of excitement.