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Lunch with Nana, Dinner with Papa, and Work

With Nana still in rehab and Papa alone, we take care of them the best we can. Poor Nana has to put up with institutional food, which, she claims, is not terrible, but which I also know is not great. Poor Papa can cook eggs and warm things up in the microwave, but he's never done much more than that.

This afternoon, since it was MLK Day and the kids and I had the day off, we took over a favorite chicken sandwich for Nana and cheered as we saw evidence of an ever-increasing appetite.

In the evening, we went to make dinner at Papa's. We either cook something here and take it over every night or take everything there to cook.

Dinner a couple of nights ago

Other than that, an uneventful day. I spent an hour in the morning planning lessons for the next several days (this week and a little beyond) for one class and another hour in the afternoon planning for another class, plus half an hour in the evening grading papers.

This year, I've kept track of all my out-of-classroom hours -- planning, grading, going to meetings, etc. For this first semester, I've spent 115 hours above the 40-hour work weeks. That's just a little over half a day shy of three full work weeks. If I keep this pace up -- and I see no reason why I wouldn't -- I'll have spent close to six weeks' worth of time outside the classroom doing work. Add to that the half-hour morning duty I have every third week, which makes 2.5 hours a week or 30 hours for the year, and I'll have 260 hours of additional work on top of my normal work week. That's six and a half weeks of work. I have about nine weeks off during summer break, but I probably spend an additional 40 or so hours over the summer planning for the coming year. (I'll keep track this summer.) That's seven and a half weeks of work, which means my summer "vacation" is really not much of vacation -- I've just put in the hours in advance.

Papa looking at bills

I don't say this to complain. Much of the time I spend grading is because I try to push my kids as hard as I can, which produces a lot of material for me to assess. I have a reputation to keep up, after all: students tell me that they've heard since they entered the school in sixth grade that I'm the most demanding teacher in the school. I don't know about that, but it certainly doesn't hurt one's sense of self-worth to hear something like that. In other words, I could do less work and get by, but then it wouldn't be the Dread Teacher Mr. Scott's.

Finally, I must have been under a rock, but I just learned of Mary Oliver's death tonight, listening to the news in the car. A poet of fairly simple verse, she's always a great choice for thirteen-year-olds. In past years, when I had students put together annotated portfolios as their culminating poetry unit project (which is not to say I have my students read poems for one dedicated unit and then neglect poetry for the rest of the year, but I find it's good to spend three or four weeks focusing on what makes poetry poetry to equip them for the rest of the year), almost every student included an Oliver poem, and they all said they liked her because she's easy to understand. I personally have always liked poems that require a bit more digging, but that's not to say I'm a big fan of someone like Louis Gluck, someone who writes poetry that is almost impenetrable. My favorites -- Bishop, Heany, Levine, and the like -- require some thought, require a bit of effort, but always reward with a moment of stunned epiphany.

And since I've been talking about work, why not include Levine's poem on the same subject:

Nana Hospital Intake Two

  • In the centel 
  • Hitting heading then spelled it hitting
  • 408 mauldin road
  • 408 indistinct 
  • Why dont you go to bed
  • am I going to get in this bed any time soon
  • Twit it not twist it
  • Every three fowers
  • Who is president? Bush  for a big trump fan this is surprising. 
  • The rattling 
  • What time is it? 7 okay I don't want mama to be upset
  • Looking for letter in folds of blanket

    Eyes

    They're supposed to be the window to our souls, and I find that the more problems a kid in my school might have with social and basic academic skills, the less likely the kid is to look in a person the eyes when speaking to anyone, especially an authority figure. There must be some truth to it, then. Consider also how we often keep them shut to block a slice of reality that is just too difficult to accept.

    Sometimes, though, someone or something else closes our eyes. In that case, it can rarely be positive. But it can certainly be positive when these same eyes open, just a bit. Do a Google image search: "eyes slightly open" and you'll find picture after picture of people lying in hospital beds, various tubes and apparatuses trailing away from the body.

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    And it makes sense: those are the times when a slightly opened eye is the most beautiful thing one can imagine.

    Papa’s Boy

    When Papa is around and the topic is politics (or religion or history or sports or any number of things), it can be hard to get a word in. When Papa is around with the Boy, it's easy to get a word in, but it's hard to pry the Boy out of Papa's arms.

    From the beginning of any visit, Nana just waits patiently, often pretending to be content to look on as Papa burps, rocks, cuddles, and coos with the Boy. When Nana finally gets to hold him, Papa is eager to "help" by taking him back. Let Nana sit just so and pinch a nerve or find her leg slightly uncomfortable and make any kind of sound that even vaguely hints at discomfort, and Papa is ready.

    "You okay? You want me to take him?"

    He's like a kid with a new toy. An expensive new toy. That cries. And passes gas. And gets fussy for no apparent reason. And then coos to sooth everyone's nerves.

    "If I'd known being a grandfather was so much fun..." he often begins the now-familiar joke.

    The Boy with Nana and Papa

    Papa’s Heaven

    Some Father's Day gifts are quite simple.

    Nana, the Girl, and the Swing

    L with Papa

    Nana and Papa Visit Family

    Crafting with Nana