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Polska 2025 Day 1

For a first day in Poland, it couldn't get much better than today: a day that slipped by without a pause as one moment bled into another to form a day that's a blur and so much more.

"Tomorrow, we're going to church at eleven!" Babcia announced, telling D that he was to drive from their home outside Krakow (where we were last evening) with all three kids and meet us in the church. "I haven't had a chance to show off my whole family in the church in a long time!" she declared. In fact, I suppose she hasn't had a chance to show off her entire family at all: the last time I remember us all being in the church here in Jablonka together was when L got baptized in 2008. That's when we took this picture:

Naturally, when we got back from church, we had to recreate that photo:

Only one of them could fit in the swing, and poor S, who is the middle in age (one year older than L and a year or two younger than W), has been left behind in the height category.

After we had a light lunch, we decided to head to Nowy Targ for ice cream. Sure, there's ice cream in Jablonka, but it's not the same as Lodziarnia Żarneccy.

"Isn't this just the best ice cream in the world!" K was raving as she savored her cone.

"Maybe for your generation, Ciociu," S politely demurred.

Your generation? That makes sit sound like some kind of disease, doesn't it? Be careful, Cousin S: middle age is very contagious, and it has a way of sneaking up on you unawares.

Once we got back, it was time to prepare for the day's main event: Babcia's seventy-ninth birthday. We'd invited all the aunties and cousins who live nearby, and we had a classic Polish ognisko with grilled chicken, kielbasa, boczek, kiszki, bread toasted over the fire, some beer, some wine, and a lot of talking and laughing.

Arrival 2025

It’s a minor miracle that any flight at all leaves Athens airport on time. We saw the chaos when we landed and quickly decided we might feel safer with more time than less when it came time to head to Polska. We arrived at 10:45 for a 2:00 flight. Admittedly I thought that was a bit excessive, but I knew K would feel more comfortable, and she was probably right, I reasoned. 

We unloaded our baggage from the taxi and entered terminal one at check-in desk 60. Not knowing where to check-in, K and the Boy waited with our baggage as L headed one way and I the other looking for the LOT desks. I made it to desk 1 without seeing anything, so I asked an airport attendant I passed. He liked it up: we were to check-in at desks 168-171—literally in the last desks in the terminal. “They will open the desks two hours before the flight,” he explained. I glanced at my watch: we had an hour to wait.

We began weaving our way through the crowd of passengers waiting to check in, heading to or from their check-in desks, and just sitting or standing with their luggage. It must be that chaotic regularly because there was a passage of large round decals forming a path on the floor directing people to find somewhere else to sit or stand as the decals indicated a walkway. 

We quickly figured out why.

We made our way to desks 168-171 and found a spot to camp out, but within twenty minutes we realized we should go ahead and get in the line though no one was even at the check-in desks yet. Poles are expert queuers and there was already a line. (When I lived in Poland, I’d arrive at the administrative office in Krakow where I renewed my visa well before it opened only to find the line stretching halfway around the block.) Gathering our luggage, we joined the line, and to our surprise, four attendants soon began checking passengers in as the line grew behind us. With only about ten to twelve groups of passengers in front of us, I was sure wevavimg already checked in online, would be through quickly.

The first clue that the whole process might be a bit more time consuming than we anticipated was that the fourth attendant was not checking anyone in. Instead she was consulting with the third attendant, helping her almost continuously, and when she wasn’t, she was talking to someone on the phone. After a few minutes, the second attendant left while she was helping someone. He stood there for a while until the first attendant finished with her passenger and then finished with him. There was some problem or other with his baggage, and he must have been there ten to fifteen minutes. Meanwhile, the only other attendant working must have been completely inexperienced for she kept asking for help from the assistant in the fourth desk who was moving between five activities: talking on the phone at her desk, talking to the attendant in the third desk, taking on the phone at the third desk, talking to the worker at the first  desk, and taking on the phone at the first desk. After a while, a fourth attendant came but she also checked no one in and insisted was apparently supervising the whole incompetent mess. Each group of travelers was taking at least eight to ten minutes to check in, with one group of Canadian travelers working on the process for well over fifteen minutes. In short, though we were very close to the start of the line, it took us well over an hour to get checked in.

Was it a technical issue, incompetence, inexperience, or some mysterious combination of the three? I feel we got an answer when we were checking our luggage.

After printing and attaching our first luggage label, the attendant told us, “I don’t see that you’ve paid for any checked baggage,” pointing to the screen (which we couldn’t see of course). K pulled up the reservation on her phone and showed her. She nodded in assent, ripped off the label, printed a new one and attached it. “Incompetence and technical stupidity it is,” I thought as we walked away.

Looking at the line snaking down the terminal, I wondered if there was any hope at all that we could take off on time. There were three times more passengers behind us than in front of us. “If this pace keeps up, it will take three more hours just to check everyone else in,” I grumbled. I’m really skilled with complaining when the perceived problem seems to be due to others’ incompetence, and I have an absolute gift at reading incompetence into my inconvenience. 

Suffice it to say, we all somehow made it through and we took off only twenty minutes late.

Athens Day 5: Lake Vouliagmeni

We made it to the required attractions here in Athens; we visited an island; we drove up to Delphi and experienced the charm of Arachova. It's been go! Go! Go! We're tired, and today was a day to relax. Do we go to a beach? Do we head to an island for more discovery? In the end, on L's urging (she's picked most of our adventures, and she's chosen excellently), we went to Lake Vouliagmeni just south of Athens. We considered renting a car, but who wants to drive in Athens again?

"It would take an hour and a half by public transport," we told the kids, not sure whether or not it would discourage them. It did not. "That's fine." So our journey today was a typical city journey: we walked a few blocks to our Victoria (Βικτώρια) metro station where we took the metro a few stations to catch the 122 bus down to Vouliagmenil. We weren't the only ones with that idea, though, and soon the bus was positively packed as we crawled through southern-Athens traffic.

"This gives you an idea of what it was like for me to be a student in Krakow," K explained to the kids

Once at the lake, we discovered what the Garra Rufa fish do: they're also known as doctor fish or nibble fish, and they do just that. Within moments of entering the water, I looked down to see they'd completely covered my legs. Once I eased into the water completely and relaxed, they swarmed my arms, my chest, my back. It was strangely addictive.

We ended up staying there for hours: none of us really wanted to leave.

Athens Day 3: Delphi

When L began picking out places she wanted to go (this Athens portion of our trip is, after all, her graduation trip), the ruins at Delphi were very high on the list. At first, I was opposed: it’s at least two hours out of Athens, and I wasn’t fond of the idea of driving in Athens. I had no firm reason why; it just didn’t sound pleasant. It was just a feeling I had. After all, “chaos” is as Greek a word one could ever imagine. Still, she kept talking about it, and I relented. (Truthfully, it really didn’t take that much: I’m a reasonably confident driver, and while I’d never drive in many countries--India comes to mind--I knew it wouldn’t be all that bad.)

We headed out today after breakfast. While K and the kids were in a pharmacy getting something for the itchy bites plaguing L (and strangely enough, no one else), I went to the car rental place just a block away and started filling out the paperwork. As we headed out to the car, the representative asked casually, “You can drive a manual, can’t you?” Of course, I can drive a manual, and yesterday on Aegina I drove a manual. But there’s a big difference in driving a manual on a small, sleepy village where the biggest challenge was ridiculously narrow streets. Narrow streets pose no challenge for a manual transmission. Hilly terrain with lots of stop lights does indeed pose a challenge. It’s not a big deal once you’ve gotten the hang of the clutch in your car (just how loosy-goosy is it?), but to acclimate yourself to that clutch in a busy city where stop lights hide on poles on the corner of streets -- that did not sound enticing. 

We made it through Athens and to the quieter roads of the countryside, but it was indeed a stressful driving experience. Scooter drivers and motorcyclists split lanes constantly, which is technically illegal, I read, but one would never know it watching their behavior. There were portions of the road where there were no clear lane markings, and where I drove it appeared to be a three-lane road whereas just in front of me, it seemed like a two-lane road. Once we made it to the quieter streets, it was a bit better, but double middle lines apparently mean nothing to Greek drivers, and the people being passed casually pull onto the shoulder to get out of the way. 

Though I was initially less than thrilled about driving two hours (with morning traffic, it was more like three hours) to get somewhere while on vacation, I came to appreciate the opportunity it offered: we were able to see parts of Greece that we would never have seen otherwise. We passed through small villages and quaint towns. We saw how ordinary Greeks live, even if only a glimpse. It also gave us freedom: when we found a town -- Arachova -- we thought charming, we were able to work that into our return plans as a dinner stop and a place to get out for a lovely walk.

Delphi itself was, as so many things here are, overwhelming. The thought of how much work it took to create something like that in a time when there were only the simplest of machines is almost overwhelming. How could they do something like that? And then the silliness of why they did it: the Delphic Oracle needed a special place to commune with Apollo and tell his priests his will using what I inferred was glossolalia. In other words, she spoke gibberish and the priests “interpreted” it. That sounds a lot like modern Evangelicalism, which is depressing: it means we as a species have outgrown this silliness in almost  2,500 years.

On the way back we stopped in Arachova for dinner. It was a stunning little town. “We should learn Greek and retire here,” K suggested.

Athens Day 2: Aegina

Athens Day 1

We wake up exceptionally early: 11:00. PM -- body-time. We’re seven hours’ difference and trying to acclimate to the new time. Yesterday’s long day gave way to an exceptionally short night (or so it felt). Hopefully after today, we’ll be fine.

When we began planning this short Athens adventure, we planned the big sightseeing day as our first full day: the Acropolis. We can see it from our apartment; we walked all around its base yesterday evening while exploring Plaka (so many maître d's inviting us in for dining: street-side dining, rooftop dining -- I felt I was continually saying, “No thank you, we already ate”). Today, though, is the day we actually visit the site.

We start with a light breakfast -- pastries we purchased on the way back to the apartment last night. The best was the cheese and spinach that K and I shared, the one K mistakenly called chocolate last night to the bemused horror of the shop attendant. I’m sure it went through her head to play along and sell our son the “chocolate” pastry and then imagine the reaction. It went through my mind. We eat on our terrace, which has views to all the antennae and solar water heaters that cover all the roofs.

We’re staying in an older part of town. The taxi driver warned us that it is not the safest neighborhood, but I think she was being the overly-cautious (perhaps somewhat xenophobic -- there are a lot of immigrants in this neighborhood) babcia (what’s “babcia” in Greek? Γιαγιά I learn) she was. (A γιαγιά taxi driver? First I’d seen. She took calls during the whole journey, and during each conversation, she sounded like the γιαγιά she clearly was.) When we returned yesterday evening, no worries at all; when we got up, we heard all of them heading out to work like the usually-hard-working immigrants they likely are. I think γιαγιά was exaggerating.

After breakfast we head to the Acropolis: we ordered tickets weeks ago through a third party because the package included a five day metro pass as well as admission to the Acropolis, the Acropolis museum, and a lot more. We reserved tickets for 8:00. When we arrive, the attendant tells us our tickets are for one in the afternoon.

“That’s not possible. We made reservations for 8:00;” we protest.

“But the ticket is for 1:00,” she says pointing to the spot on the ticket that indicated the time: 1:00 PM indeed. So we go from “We’re about to enter the Acropolis,” to “Jeez, what do we do for these five hours? The logical option is just to switch afternoon and morning plans, but our afternoon plans were so loose and free because we thought we’d be coming off the Acropolis, tired, sweaty, ready for something easy and pleasant in the afternoon. Still, what else could we do? So we go to the National Gardens (lovely), then head to the parliament building to watch the changing of the guard, followed by the Panathenaic stadium, the ancient Agora, and modern lunch.

The whole time I find myself thinking about how we made reservations for 8:00 but they registered as 1:00. At first I reason it had something to do with the time difference: “Stupid website somehow took into account the time difference and registered us for 8:00 our time.” But that doesn’t make sense: we’re seven hours different, not five. Where is the difference five hours? Between South Carolina and England, the country that runs the website we used. “That must be what happened,” we reason.

When it’s time to head back up to the Acropolis, we buy more water (we never seem to have enough) and decide to go back via the metro. Unlike the morning, it’s relatively empty, but with the wait times at each station (we had to make two line changes), we end up arriving fifteen minutes after one.

Already riled up, I start muttering under my breath: “If they don’t let us in…” Of course, they do, and of course, we’re amazed with what we see. The main building is of course a temple to Athena, making it sort of the Notre Dame of ancient Greek religion -- or rather, the opposite: Notre Dame is the Parthenon of Christianity. Perhaps in a few more millenia, people will be visiting cathedrals like we view the Parthenon now: relics of a bygone time honoring a deity we can’t imagine worshiping. (Are there any who still worship Athena and the other gods? A quick search reveals that Hellenism or Hellenic Polytheism does still exist, but they’re a religious curiosity at this point. Perhaps Christianity and Islam will be the same?)

After our visit, we head back to the apartment to refresh and to relax for just a bit before heading out to dinner. That is, everyone but me: I start working on pictures, which will be especially challenging this trip. I thought I could do everything through L’s iPad, which I guess I could, but I ran into some initial hiccups yesterday and ended up doing all the photo editing on my phone. Long-ish story. It has its benefits: I’m not willing to spend so much time editing on my phone, so I’m more selective, and there will be a lot of unedited pictures I can play with when we get back to the States. But it adds a step to the workflow, and it’s really aggravating working on such a small screen for editing. The second challenge is the new camera, rather its batteries: they take forever to charge, and they die quickly. I’ve never had to be so conscientious of my battery life when photographing. We have two batteries, but we should have brought a third. First world problems -- one must keep things in perspective.

Athens Arrival

For all intents and purposes, this has been one, long, sleepless day. We left for Atlanta around 9:30 Sunday morning and arrived in Athens around 2:00 local time.

Add to it the fact that I barely slept at all in the plane from Atlanta to Frankfurt, and took only the shortest of naps when we arrived in Athens and it's fairly obvious why I'm about to fall asleep typing this.

Busy Saturday

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Busy day -- countdown only.

Final Friday

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Today is our last Friday in the States before heading for our great European adventure. We're all excited about Greece, and we all have things we want to do there, but the thought of just going straight to Poland like we always do, heading straight to Babcia's for hugs and rosol -- part of me wishes we were just doing that.

Morning in the backyard

Just the Number

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Nothing really to say. Nothing to write about. Taking something of a break before the storm of pictures and thoughts in Greece and Poland. But we need the number...

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