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Visiting Aunt D

Aunt D is a saint. A generous soul with a kind heart and a desire to throw her arms around her entire family and pull them close for a never-ending hug. My memories of visiting Aunt D stretch back to my childhood, to an age younger than the Boy. We spent alternating Thanksgivings with Aunt D and Papa’s extended family in South Carolina and Nana’s family outside of Nashville. That constituted the majority of our visits.

We haven’t spent a Thanksgiving with Aunt D in probably a decade, but she almost always arranges some kind of family gathering around the holidays. This year, we missed the reunion, and the plan was to have a mini-gathering last Saturday. Alas, Aunt D was sick, and the whole get-together had to be canceled. But the holidays are just not the same without a visit to Aunt D, so we drove through the pine forests on pothole-filled roads (a staple of childhood memories of visiting SC) today for a quick visit -- our first since Uncle M’s memorial service this last summer.

Return to 5 v 5

After a short break for the holidays, the boys are back at it, playing five versus five soccer on a quarter-sized field. It's such a different version of the game: with a smaller field, it's much faster, and since there's no off-sides, it changes the overall dynamic a bit. Plus, everyone plays offense and defense.

They played an academy team, which means a team that practices more frequently and travels for tournaments. The soccer version of travel volleyball. During the regular season, playing a travel team during our Saturday matches is a rarity, and if they do play, the academy/travel team usually has to play up an age group.

It's not that way during the less formal five-versus-five season. They boys got taken apart by an academy team just before the Christmas break, and I worried it would happen today. It started that way: within a few short moments, we were down 0-2. It went 1-2 before the academy team scored again.

By the half, though, our boys had tied it at three apiece. Two of the boys had written a silly motivational speech, which they delivered to the team during halftime, and it must have worked.

Soon, the boys were up 4-3. Then it was 4-4. "We might end up tying this, or better!" I thought. It was the latter: our boys soon scored two unanswered goals, adding a third before the end of the match to win 7-4.

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Delusion

For Sale

The Boy's interests in music are changing. He rarely plays guitar anymore, and the bass he got for his birthday a couple of years ago has sat untouched for well over a year. I would be pushing for him to continue playing if it weren't for his complete obsession with trombone now. So until recently in his room, he had two trombones, two guitars, and a bass. It's not a big room -- it's not a big house -- and those instruments took up a lot of room. One guitar and the bass have to go, he decided.

As such, we've listed it.

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