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End of the 2021/22 School Year — Countdown Begins

Today was the final day of school for me. The kids didn't have school, but teachers have to go in for at least one more day to get things squared away for the summer: materials returned, documents completed, papers signed, report cards mailed. During my first year at Hughes, I was overwhelmed with the amount of stuff we had to do. Since then, teachers' "To Do" list has been drastically simplified. One whole task, which often took hours, has been assigned to others. I use the passive voice there because, quite honestly, I don't know who made that change, but I am grateful nonetheless.

Getting this last day out of the way is such a relief because I reach a point where I can finally stop thinking about school for a while -- I'm not even planning on doing any prep work this summer. For one thing, I have too much to do this summer:

  • Trim the Leyland cypresses (a two-day job in and of itself)
  • Clean the outside of the house
  • Pressure-wash the deck
  • Apply ample coats of water-proofing to the deck
  • Pressure-wash the concrete portion of the drive
  • Complete the furniture assembly for the remodeled basement

Then there's all the travel:

  • L's final tournament in Orlando
  • L's job
  • L's physical therapy
  • L's volleyball conditioning
  • L's individual volleyball lessons
  • E's play dates

Still, this is a fairly short list for the summer, but this is all in the next three weeks, for in just 23 days, we'll be heading to Poland as a family of four for the first time since 2017. Five years. Five years. It's the longest period of time I've not visited Poland since I first went in 1996. K and E went last summer; L went on her own in the summer of 2019. (Or was it 2018?) But it's been five long years since we all went.

That means L was E's age the last time we were there. And L has gone from being a pre-teen to an almost-licensed (driver-permitted?) employed teen with all that entails.

L on the day we arrived in 2017

The Boy has one from a little five-year-old thrilled with everything new to an increasingly cynical (but still fascinated by many things) ten-year-old.

The Boy on the day we arrived in 2017

We'll probably take the same walk we always do on the day we arrive, and we'll definitely enjoy Babcia's rosół the day we arrive, but everything will be just a little different. And that's probably good.

More Yard Work

Today we headed out for a bit more yardwork. One portion of our fence had become so overgrown with weeds and vines that it was basically invisible.

In the process of clearing everything away, we found the wreath of artificial flowers L created a couple of years ago when we made our bamboo fortress. It was an unexpected flash of bright color in an overwhelmingly monochromatic (green being the color) morning.

Once we were done, we were shocked at the difference. We'd really let things get out of hand.

Once the girls were back, E was eager to spend some time with K. Boys' weekends are fun, but the reunion afterward is better. Especially when it involves building a couch fort.

A Bit of Our Day

Last Couple of Days

Eighth-Grade Day 2022

Game Playing, Shirt Signing

Another day of nothing, it would seem. Why the district makes us go these last days, we'll never know. Well, we know -- it's the law. But it's always a little strange. Still, the kids enjoy just getting to hang out with each other.

They play games.

They sign shirts.

And they just hang out together.

Class numbers are low; the kids who are there are always the calm, sweet ones. Why not just let them be and revel in their youth?

Nearing the End

The kids have only three more days of school: today was one of the two last full days because the final days are half days. Feed them lunch and get them out -- that's all that has to occur for the day to count, lunch. Everyone got their yearbooks today, so they spent most of the day signing each other's yearbooks.

Naturally, several students asked me to sign their yearbooks. In the past, I made it easy on myself and kept with my dad-joke persona: I'd ask, "What do you want me to write?" and write whatever they said.

"I don't know. Something nice." Into the yearbook goes I don't know. Something nice.

This year, I decided not to do that. It's easy, and it's fun to see the kids' reactions, but this time, I thought about what I wanted to say to each kid who asked.

It was hard for some of them

Some of the things I wanted to say might not be the greatest thing to write in a yearbook. Not that they were negative, but so many kids sell themselves so short, so many kids who never really worked to their full potential because they didn't even see their full potential. I sat and pondered for a bit, coming up with something positive and encouraging for everyone, but it wasn't always easy or automatic.

Except for some kids.

We're not supposed to have favorites, I know, and I really don't feel like I do, but there are some kids that are just easier to work with, are just simpler to help reach their potential, are just more relaxed. More blessed some might say.

Memorial Day Walk

We decided today to visit Greenville's newest park: Unity Park. According to the website,

Greenville’s newest park features four state-of-the-art playgrounds, including a 4,100-square-foot splash pad, two expansive green spaces, covered picnic tables and a 10,000-square-foot welcome center with restrooms, a first-aid station and flexible event space. The 60-acre park also features basketball courts and a historic baseball field located on the site of the former Mayberry Park, which was built in 1925.

Unity Park Site

E and I rode our bikes by it on our last trip on the Swamp Rabbit trail, but it was still under construction at that point.

After exploring the new park for a while, we walked downtown to the tried and true Reedy River Park.

An overall lovely day.

Songs

American/Polish Ognisko